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When it comes to financial decisions, such as saving money and building wealth, we can all probably come up with several excuses as to why we haven’t done certain things. And everyone can likely make a long list of bad financial decisions they have made. Though we all have some money regrets, the important thing is that we acknowledge it and take steps to improve our finances!

Financial decisions

Regardless of the money choices you’ve made, there is always some room for improvement when it comes to money. And the opportunity to improve can come from learning from other people’s money mistakes!

Especially as women, it is critical for us to get our finances in order. Not only do we earn less than men, but we spend more time out of the workforce having and raising children.

Additionally, we live longer than men on average.

This means we are likely to need more money over the long term to support ourselves, so we have to be smart about our finances.

So, let’s examine the most common bad financial decisions. Then we’ll discuss how to recover and start making better choices going forward!

15 Bad financial decisions to watch out for

Below are some of the most common bad financial decisions people make regarding their finances. Can you relate? Not to worry though! I’m also sharing they key ways in which you can avoid or recover from them.

1. Not saving any of your monthly income

When it comes to saving money, I’ve heard so many people complain that after they’ve paid their bills, they don’t have any money to contribute to their retirement accounts or to add to their emergency fund.

However, some of us still find money to buy non-essential items, go out for drinks and dinner, and so much more! A lot of times, I’ll even hear people say things like, “Well, dinner only costs $20, it doesn’t make a difference.”

However, putting away $20 a week for one year in a savings account with zero interest will give you $1,040 dollars at the end of the year. Imagine if you did that for five years. You’d have over $5,000. And saving $20 on a weekly basis is likely money you wouldn’t miss!

Not putting money into your savings account each month is common but can be harmful to your future self. It often happens when people don’t really have any concrete financial goal setting in place or think they have plenty of time to save in the future.

But by doing this, they end up paying themselves last. It’s definitely a bad financial decision.

What to do if you have not been saving:

One way to easily save is to establish the habit of trying out different budgeting methods and working with a monthly budget. Make it a point to save at least 10% of your monthly income before you spend anything. If 10% seems like a stretch right away, start with 5% and build up to 10% over the next few months.

Consider automating your deposits to your savings account, too—this will make sticking to your savings goals much easier.

2. Living large in your 20s

In your 20’s, you graduate from college, get your first big paycheck, and maybe move out on your own. And now you can do things that you couldn’t do when you didn’t make any money.

Also, you probably don’t have as many financial burdens as someone in their 30s or 40s. So it’s easy to put savings on the back burner while you enjoy those glorious twenties and make poor financial decisions.

Although it’s easy to get carried away when you first start earning money, don’t forget to think about your future.

What to do if you find yourself living large:

Yes, you might be young and yes you might have time to save.

However, nothing can replace lost time, and the power of compounding, so learn how to budget and prioritize your future financial well-being over your wants.

Your financial decision-making in your 20s has a huge impact on your future, and you should start to build wealth in your 20s if possible.

3. Making large purchases and not paying off your credit card

One of the most common bad financial decisions is not paying off a credit card. For many, a lot of credit card debt comes from buying things we don’t really need. From that awesome clothing sale to eating out every day, those small transactions can rack up pretty quickly, and before we know it, we are left with a pretty hefty credit card balance.

Avoid this regret by reminding yourself that credit is actually debt and the available balance on your credit card isn’t real money! It’s money you are borrowing and will have to pay back.

What to do if you have credit card debt:

I like to describe debt as a stumbling block on the path to building wealth. And to get past it, you need to have a plan to roll (or blast) that block out of your way! It can be very difficult to save money when you are paying back debt at high interest.

However, creating and executing a plan to aggressively attack your debt, especially credit card debt, allows you to pay it off as quickly as possible. Then, you can fully focus on saving more money.

If you currently have debt, stop using your credit card and establish a debt repayment plan, like the debt snowball method.

4. Delaying important financial decisions

Putting off important financial decisions, e.g., paying off debt, saving, investing, etc., can be a big financial mistake. Too many people promise themselves to get around to it, but instead of taking action, we waste so much time.

How to stop delaying financial decisions:

To stop delaying important financial decisions, start by breaking down the actions you need to take into smaller, manageable steps. Set specific deadlines for each step to create a sense of urgency.

Educate yourself about the decisions you need to make, whether it’s investing, budgeting, or debt management, so you feel more confident and empowered.

If you need to, seek support from financial professionals or mentors who can provide guidance and accountability. Challenge yourself to take at least one small action every day towards your financial goals, so you can build momentum and reduce procrastination.

Personally, to keep myself motivated I remind myself of the consequences of not taking action (not achieving my goals) and also of the benefits of making timely financial decisions.

5. Not investing

A really bad financial decision is deciding not to invest your money at all. But if you don’t invest, your money will not grow. And you need it to do so to afford the things you want in the future, like retirement.

If you think you must be an expert in the stock market to invest, think again! There are plenty of options, and with technology, learning how to start investing has never been easier.

How to start investing:

You can invest in the stock market, try real estate investing, or invest in a business. Whichever route you choose or if you decide to go with all three, it is critical that you do your research and understand the basics of what you are putting your money into.

The stock market can seem like gambling or a big scary place, but not if you know what you are doing and have investment objectives.

The returns on the stock market average about 10% over the long term and it’s one of the most popular forms of investing out there.

If you’re not confident about investing or don’t understand things like the difference between ETFs and index funds you can always seek help from a financial advisor. Advisors help you set up an investment portfolio based on your risk tolerance and individual situation.

You can also learn a ton about investing by enrolling in our completely free investing course!

Remember that the key to successful investment portfolios is diversification! So, be sure to have a diverse portfolio to ensure you are investing wisely.

6. Not having a backup plan

Not having a backup plan is a pretty bad financial mistake. Having a backup plan protects us from unplanned and expensive life occurrences.

For you to have a positive relationship with money, you need a backup plan—a solid one.

How to establish your back up plan:

Two of the most important aspect of your back up plan are having a fully-funded emergency fund (3 to 6 months of basic living expenses) and ensuring that you have the right types of insurance (health, auto, life, disability, home, renters etc.).

To fund your emergency savings, build it into your budget and put money toward it each time you get paid. Next assess your current life to determine what insurance gaps you have.

For example, do you rent an apartment but don’t have renters insurance? Do you need to increase your health insurance or auto insurance coverage?

Having these things in place will literally save you when life happens and help you maintain your financial plan.

You’ll have money to fall back on rather than having to leverage debt or lose all your savings and investments to cover your situation.

7. Not protecting your personal information

In today’s internet world, identity theft and credit fraud are rampant, and not taking the extra measures to protect your personal and financial information can be a bad financial decision.

So much of our specific information like address, date of birth, and more is information scammers and hackers can easily find due to so many data breaches in recent times.

How to protect your personal information:

Protecting yourself is simple once you get set up. It means staying on top of your credit reports, not entering your data on websites you don’t trust, and putting alerts or freezing your credit cards and credit profile.

Many banks and credit card companies also offer free credit monitoring services. I strongly recommend you take advantage of this.

8. Ignoring the small goals

Think saving $15 a week or paying $20 to your credit card this month isn’t worth noting? As insignificant as those mini goals might seem, they matter.

They can add up a lot over time. In my opinion, our small goals are what help us accomplish the bigger ones because they allow us to get started.

How to focus on your small financial goals:

Some specific examples of small financial goals include things like:

  • Establishing a $1,000 emergency fund
  • Making an extra payment on your credit card each month
  • Finding ways to cut back on certain monthly expenses
  • Contributing to your retirement savings account
  • Improving your credit
  • Exploring side hustles

And remember that having long-term goals is essential to defining your big picture. We all love those yearly goals.

However, if we don’t break these goals down into smaller chunks it’s easy to get overwhelmed. As a result, we’ll feel like we’re making no progress at all.

I like to make long-term goals along with short-term ones. Then, I keep my day-to-day focus on my short-term goals, and I find great progress that way.

9. Lack of accountability

When you have no personal accountability, there is no one to motivate you, remind you, or keep you focused on what you are trying to accomplish.

As a result, you might start getting complacent, putting things off, and finding yourself in the perpetual state of getting things done “later” or, worse still, telling yourself you can’t do it.

How to be accountable:

It’s important to adjust your circle of influence if necessary and get the accountability you need.

For me, this means sharing my financial goals and dreams with a trusted friend who will encourage me and ask about my progress. It stops me from making poor financial decisions.

10. Not checking in on your progress

How do you make progress with what you don’t track? You won’t know when you’ve achieved a goal or hit a milestone.

How to track your progress:

Checking in on your goals is a must. It could be as simple as creating a schedule to check in on your goals, noting both short and long term ones. One great way to do this is to use a planner.

For me, a goal planner can really keep me motivated and focused. It allows me to add a timeline for my goals and record them.

11. Not caring about your credit score

Perhaps you’ve made the mistake of getting into a lot of credit card debt or even missing loan payments. These things can negatively affect your credit.

Your credit can be rebuilt, and while it isn’t everything, it does matter. For instance, you need decent credit to get a mortgage and get a good loan interest rate.

How to stay on top of your credit score:

I like to keep an eye on my credit score and try to improve it as much as possible. Utilizing a free service like Credit Karma to check and monitor your score can be beneficial.

In addition, I recommend avoiding debt as much as possible. Budget and create a plan to pay off anything you spend on a credit card each month so you don’t carry a balance. Doing this will allow you to reach many of your goals more easily.

12. Buying things brand new that you could buy second-hand

Have you ever bought something expensive that is brand new without shopping around? I know I have! The problem is that you could be spending more money unnecessarily when you could have potentially found the same thing for less if you went the second hand route!

What to consider buying secondhand or pre-owned:

For instance, items like furniture, appliances or cars can be cheaper if they’re secondhand in some cases. Or perhaps you want to purchase a designer purse. You may be able to get a good deal on a pre-owned designer handbag and save hundreds!

Although buying used isn’t always the way to go, depending on the item’s condition, it can often be a good choice. When you save money on expensive items by checking for deals, you can use the money you save for other financial goals.

When I shop second-hand, I like to look for items in “like new” or “excellent” condition. This way I know I’m getting value for my money and not just buying something with little value left.

13. Not sticking to a budget

Budgets are a great way to improve our finances, but sometimes, it’s easy to ignore a money plan like this. When we make a budget and don’t follow it, our future selves will pay for it.

Not following a budget can lead to a lack of funds for emergencies, being unable to retire when you want to, feeling overwhelmed by debt, and more. To avoid this, create a budget and promise yourself you’ll stick to it, or start working on better budgeting if you already budget.

How to stick to a budget:

First things first, it’s all about finding a good budgeting method. Finding a budget that works for you might take time, but when you do, you’ll be able to take full control of your money and make real progress.

One you determine your budgeting method, write out your expenses and your income. Then, determine how much your essentials cost each month and what is left over afterward.

Additionally, make a plan for what you’ll do with any money left over. You can make your budget as detailed as you want, but this is a very easy way to begin.

But remember, making a money plan is easy. Sticking to it may not be. So, decide how to handle it when you want to overspend.

You might try using a reward system, getting accountability, or whatever works for you to help you stick to the plan you made.

14. Forgetting to celebrate

It’s easy to think that you should only celebrate the big things or forget to reward yourself for your progress. But it’s what keeps you motivated!

Even if your progress was small it doesn’t mean it’s not worthwhile. Celebrate all victories, no matter how big or small. Not everything you do will result in massive strides, but it all adds up and gets you closer to where you want to be.

And your financial life isn’t going to be just the big moments. There are many smaller things to celebrate, such as paying off a credit card, sticking to your budget for a month, or saving up a few thousand dollars.

How to celebrate your wins!

Celebrate yourself by journaling about your financial victories, cooking a favorite meal, or taking a day or weekend for yourself. It makes everything more worthwhile.

15. Not getting back up after you slip

Don’t settle for a situation because you made a mistake, caught yourself over spending, or bought something you shouldn’t have. Slip-ups will happen. Give yourself the grace to recognize your error or mistake, remember your why, and get back to work!

How to get back up after a slip:

Know that you are not the first or last to make unwise financial decisions, and the important thing is the progress you make over time. One slip-up doesn’t make or break your money goals forever – your daily habits are what matter most.

The worst thing you can do after a mistake is give up. The best thing is to simply try again. So dust yourself off, remember your “why”, review your goals and get back it!

Expert tip: Focus on life beyond your finances

How we handle money is important. But I find that it’s best to keep things in perspective, especially if I feel I’ve made a money mistake. While unwise financial decisions can slow our progress, there’s a healthy way to think about our mistakes.

First, realize what your mistake was, assess the lessons, and then make a plan to recover from it. After that, it’s best not to dwell on your finances all the time or make them overly important.

Remember to enjoy your life and focus on the positive as you work towards a solid financial foundation.

How to recover from bad financial decisions

We have all made mistakes, and sometimes, that includes making bad financial decisions. But don’t beat yourself up over it!

Thankfully, there are plenty of strategies and ways to recover from a past financial mistake. Here are some tips to help you make smart money choices!

Step 1: Acknowledge your bad financial decisions and forgive yourself

To get ahead, you have to forgive yourself for your money mistakes.

So take note of the important life lessons you’ve learned and keep moving. Everyone has made some bad management decisions around their money – even the world’s wealthiest people.

It’s all about acknowledging where you went wrong and figuring out what to do to make things right. Even if you make the same or similar mistake again, you can rinse and repeat (acknowledge, learn, and implement the lessons) until you get past your error. That is how you will succeed with your finances.

Once you’ve committed to forgiving yourself and are ready to move forward, it’s important to recognize where you are with your finances right now. Then, you can determine where you would rather be.

Step 2: Decide it’s time to take action towards changing your financial situation

Once you’ve decided to make good financial choices, put a plan in place. And you don’t have to wait for January. You can start today.

Reduce your spending, expenses & debt load, see if you can boost your income, and make saving money for your future self a priority. All these things will put you on the path to creating a solid financial plan.

Be willing to change and be committed to seizing the moment to start working on revamping your finances.

No more waiting for the perfect moment to sort out your finances. Start now. This means if you can only save $5 a week right now, save that $5.

If it means you can only put $10 towards your debt this week, make that $10 payment. Then, start figuring out how to reduce your expenses and earn more so you can ramp up your savings or debt repayment plans and get back on track with your financial goals.

In addition, identify any spending triggers and devise a game plan to avoid them and minimize the slip-ups!

Your money situation will always change, so look at it as a financial journey. As you save more money, pay off debt, and increase your income, it will be much easier to recover from any past bad financial decisions you made.

If you need help, you could also work with reputable financial advisers or tax professionals depending on your needs. A great attorney for legal advice should also be on your list. Be sure to look into the background of your financial professional to ensure they are a good fit for you beforehand.

Step 3: Get motivated and shift your circle of influence

One of the best ways to begin making smarter money choices is to learn from others. So, start reading personal finance and personal development books and blogs.

Listen to podcasts and watch videos. Surround yourself with people who will motivate you to do better and keep going even when you have bad days.

Make it your mission to shift yourself away from your circle of influence if it is of no benefit to your goal of financial success. Remember, bad financial behaviors from others can affect you, so choose your associations wisely.

4. Define your goals and make them easy to accomplish

My next piece of advice is to define your goals for correcting a financial mistake and then make it very simple to stick with it.

For instance, put your goals where you can see them. A calendar or planner works well!

Next, automate savings, bill payments, debt payoff, etc. It’s one of the simplest ways to ensure success.

Last, find other ways to stay motivated. Talk to your accountability partner, read money books, etc. (Hint: Take our completely free Clever Girl Finance courses), and decide that you will succeed!

5. Be okay with failure and remember to keep trying

It’s completely okay to fail sometimes! The silver lining behind it is the important life lessons you will learn. Take the lessons and apply them to your next steps.

Know that no one is perfect and no one gets everything right with their finances every time.

Most of all, do not give up. Continue to work towards improving your money.

What is considered a bad financial decision?

A bad financial decision is one that throws you off course from your goals or negatively impacts your finances. Some common ones are credit card debt, not saving anything, and overspending.

If you have made poor financial decisions, don’t panic. Simply make a plan to fix them and get back on track. It may require time or financial sacrifice, like a stricter budget or a money savings challenge, but the rewards are worth it!

What is the best financial decision?

One of the best financial choices is to save and invest money for your future self. Saving for our future helps us all to be prepared, and investing allows us to make more money over time.

We all need money to help us with expenses, emergencies, and retirement. Saving and investing allow us to prepare for these life changes and be confident in our ability to thrive with money.

Why do people make poor financial choices?

People may make poor financial decisions for various reasons, including emotions, a lack of financial knowledge, or a lack of planning.

For instance, you might go into debt if you have an emergency expense to pay for and no savings. Or perhaps you don’t know how compound interest works, so you neglect investing in your financial plans.

Knowing financial literacy basics and being ready for expenses are both very important. And anyone can learn how to handle finances and make good money choices, given time and the resources to succeed.

Now that you’ve learned how to recover from a financial mistake check out these posts for more information!

You can recover from bad financial decisions!

It might feel like there is no light at the end of the tunnel, your debts are so large, you are so behind in your career, and/or you cannot recover from your mistakes. But remember, the only way change happens is by taking the first step and then the next step.

You can totally do this.

Take stock of your finances, learn how to budget, and start saving and paying off your debt. Before you know it, you’ll be on your way to getting your financial house in order and making better money management decisions!

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Prayers for financial breakthrough can be a powerful way to improve your financial situation. Talking to God about money may be different or new for you. But not to worry, we have 7 prayer examples you can use during financial hardship.

Prayers for financial breakthrough

Like budgeting and saving money, prayer can be a powerful tool for financial success. 

By reciting prayers and scriptures for financial breakthrough, you can start to feel more secure with your finances. But first, let’s discuss more about how prayer can help you in your financial situation. 

How prayer can help you achieve your financial goals

Prayer is powerful but not the same as asking a genie to grant you three wishes.

However, with consistent prayer combined with taking intentional action, you can eventually reach financial success.

Helps keep you focused

Repeating prayers for financial breakthrough will help keep your mind focused on what you want.

I find that whether I pray for extra money or to pay off credit card debt, by repeating what I desire through prayer, my mind begins to prioritize what I want.

Causes you to stop worrying about money

Prayer can help relieve anxiety and fear. The act of praying fills you with hope.

When you pray about your financial situation, you trust you will be guided in the right direction. You know that by praying, God takes care of what you desire. 

Clarifies your financial goals

Prayer usually involves asking for or reflecting on specific things. It’s easy to ask for more money, but the most powerful prayers are specific.

Using prayers for financial breakthrough helps you get clear on what you want to achieve with your money. 

What to include in your prayer

Whether you’re new to prayer or pray all the time, here is what you can include in your prayers to make them more potent. 

Acknowledge God

No matter your situation or hardships, it’s essential to acknowledge the power of God. God is still providing whether you’re trying to find out how to avoid overdraft fees or you didn’t get paid as much as you’d like.

When you acknowledge God’s presence and power, you are showing that you trust him to provide. 

Express gratitude

Research shows that gratitude can improve your relationships and make you feel happier. Therefore, gratitude in prayer is essential even when things aren’t going your way.

For instance, perhaps my car is run down, and my mattress has some springs popping out; most people have something to complain about. But if I only focus on what’s wrong in my life, I’ll fail to see what’s good.

Your life may not be perfect right now, but there are still many things to be grateful for. In your prayer, make sure to thank God for the things he’s helped provide for you. When you express your gratitude, you show God that you appreciate what you have now and what he’ll give you in the future. 

As it says in James 1.17, ” Every good and perfect gift is from above.

Ask for what you desire

One of the most critical parts of the prayer is to ask for what you want.

However, it can feel uncomfortable doing this. Perhaps you feel like you are being selfish or greedy, but as it says in Matthew 7:7, “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened to you.”

Whether you want financial stability, to build wealth, money to pay your bills, or extra money to take a vacation, it’s okay to ask the Lord for money. Express your intention.

For instance, ask God to help you build wealth to provide a safety net for your children. Or ask God to help you eliminate your debt so you learn how to save money.

Thank the Lord for delivering

When finishing your prayer, it’s best to end with gratitude. You are thanking God for not only listening to your prayers but for answering them as well.

When you thank him for delivering what you desire before what you want arrives, it shows faith. And the more you have faith, the less you’ll have self-doubt and worry. 

Additionally, by thanking God in advance, it puts you in the mindset that the money you desire is on its way, helping you switch your scarcity mindset to an abundant mindset

7 Examples of prayers for financial success

Now that you see the benefits of prayers for financial breakthrough, here are some examples of different prayers you can use in your financial situation. 

Additionally, we’ve provided some scriptures for financial breakthrough to help amp up your prayers.

1. Example of prayer for better money management

Do you find yourself overspending or relying too much on your credit cards? Maybe you’re having trouble saving. If so, you can use this prayer for how to manage your money

Dear Lord,

I humbly come before your good graces. Thank you for providing me with a stable job with a consistent income.

Please help me with my money management. Help me prioritize my finances and also make better decisions with my money.

Thank you for answering my prayers.

Amen.

Scripture: Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you, saying, ‘This person began to build and wasn’t able to finish. Luke 14:28 – 30

2. Prayer example for financial stability

Financial stability is the foundation for building wealth and better money management. Here is how you can use prayer to become financially stable. 

Dear Lord,

I come humbly before you to seek your guidance and help. First, thank you for being open to my prayers as I ask for your help in creating financial stability. I appreciate the resources and income you have provided for me, and I pray that you guide me in making better financial decisions with my money.

I pray for a steady flow of income and that you provide me with the wisdom to manage it well.

By granting me financial stability, I can provide a better life for myself, my family, and my loved ones. With a financially stable life, I can feel secure and confident with my money, meet my needs, and give to those who have less than myself. 

Thank you for answering my prayer.

Amen.

Scripture:The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.” Proverbs 21:5

3. Idea for prayer for getting out of debt

Prayers for financial breakthrough can also work when you want to know how to pay off credit card debt fast.

Whether temptation or misfortune led you to debt, paying back the money you owe as soon as possible is essential. Here is a prayer to help you pay back what you owe.

Dear God,

I pray to you today, asking for your help. I admit to borrowing more money than I could pay back and now seek your guidance to pay my debts and achieve financial freedom. As Proverbs 21:5 states, “The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty.”

Please forgive me for the financial shortcuts I have taken that have led me into debt. I come before you now, ready to change. I am willing to plan and work hard to get myself out of debt. Thank you for showing me the way and helping me to stay disciplined and focused. 

Amen.

Scripture:Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for whoever loves others has fulfilled the law.” Romans 13:8

4. Example of prayer to help build wealth

Prayers for financial breakthrough can be applied to building wealth. It might feel uncomfortable, or you may feel greedy if you pray for wealth.

However, building wealth means you can provide for others, give back to the church, and live a life with less worry. Try one of these prayers for financial breakthroughs and building wealth. 

Dear Lord,

I want to thank you for the abundance you’ve provided for me in my life. Thank you for the income, resources, and money you gave me through various means. I ask you from a place of humility to help me build up the abundance you have provided.

Please help me to lead a life of prosperity through building wealth. And with this wealth, I can better preach your word and support the church and others in need. 

As you help me to build my wealth, I know you will guide me to make the right financial decisions.

Amen.

Scripture:Wealth and riches are in his house, and his righteousness endures forever.” Psalm 112:3 

5. Prayer idea for when you’re worrying about money

Everyone worries about money at some point in time, even the uber-wealthy.

However, worrying about money never made anyone richer. If you feel overwhelmed with worry and fear, you can turn to prayers for a financial breakthrough and learn how to stop worrying about money.

Whether you’re concerned about paying your bills or having enough money, this prayer can help ease your stress. 

Dear God,

I come to you seeking peace from my worry about money. As Psalm 55:22 says, “Cast your cares on God, and he’ll sustain you.” I thank you for the times you have provided for me in the past, and I know that you will continue to in the present and the future. 

I trust you will resolve my money situation and provide me with what I need. My focus has shifted from worry to the current blessings in my life. My faith in you is unwavering.

Amen.

Scripture:This is why I tell you: do not be worried about the food and drink you need to stay alive or about clothes for your body. After all, isn’t life worth more than food? And isn’t the body worth more than clothes? Look at the birds: they do not plant seeds, gather a harvest, and put it in barns, yet your heavenly Father takes care of them! Aren’t you worth much more than birds? ” — Matthew 6:25-26

6. Prayer example for financial miracles

Miracles happen daily, and chances are you’ve experienced some miracles in your lifetime.

Have you ever reached the gas station when your tank was empty? Miracle!

Or perhaps you lost your wallet and a stranger returned it to you, with everything in it. Miracle!

With the unpredictability of life, everyone can use a miracle, and here’s the prayer for one. 

Dear Lord,

Thank you for the miracles you’ve provided for me in the past. I know your ability to perform the unimaginable as I’ve witnessed it in my life many times. I come before you today humbly asking for a financial miracle.

Due to unexpected experiences, I need a miracle to help me through this delicate financial situation. Although I don’t know how things will come together, I trust you are taking care of it. I know a miracle will occur at just the right moment.

Thank you for continuously performing miracles in my life.

Amen.

Scripture: Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened to you.”Matthew 7:7

7. Thoughts for prayer to find employment

Have you recently lost your job, or are you looking for a new one? Maybe you need to find a new job that is more suitable to your needs. Here is a prayer to help you with your employment search.

Dear God,

I come before you to ask for your assistance in finding employment. Please guide me in finding work that will allow me to use my skills to help others and be fairly compensated so that I can provide for myself and others. 

I know that you have the ideal job waiting for me. As you lead me to employment, I will stay open to your guidance. 

Thank you for helping me find employment.

Amen.

Scripture:  “And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:19

Expert tip: Pray daily

We often turn to prayer when we are in need. However, if we use prayer daily, we can see more financial breakthroughs. Additionally, I’ve tried reading scriptures with reviewing my finances. Also adding bible verses to my budgeting sheets.

Scriptures for financial breakthrough to pray and reflect on

The word of God has messages of encouragement and guidance. Use these scriptures to reflect on or add to your prayers.

Consider the ravens: they neither sow nor reap, they have neither storehouse nor barn and yet God feeds them. Of how much more value are you than the birds!Luke 12:24

But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.Matthew 6:33

Sovereign Lord, You made the heavens and the earth and the sea, and everything in them.Acts 4:24

What is the strongest prayer for financial breakthrough?

Prayers for a financial breakthrough are most potent when you believe in them and also take action.

Therefore, choosing and reciting a prayer that aligns with your beliefs and needs is essential. When you believe in something, it’s easier to take action to try to achieve your financial goals. You can also add scriptures for financial breakthrough to your prayers to make them more powerful.

For example, “Dear God, I kneel before you in prayer, believing in your ability to help me succeed financially. I know you will provide for me, help me make the right decisions, and relieve me from my financial turmoil. I trust you will help me pay off my debt and build wealth.” 

If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer.” Matthew 21:22

What is a good prayer for financial blessings?

A good prayer for financial blessings can also be a simple one.

Something like, “Dear God, thank you for all the blessings in my life. Thank you for blessing me with excellent health, loved ones, and a safe place to rest my head every night. I come before you asking for financial blessings among the many benefits you have bestowed upon me. Please grant me economic prosperity, and I will always try to honor your name.”

As it says in Philippians 4:19, “And this same God who takes care of me will supply all your needs from his glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus.

How do I pray to God for financial miracles?

You can pray to God for financial miracles by using prayers and scriptures for financial breakthroughs. As it says in Luke 18:27, “What is impossible with man is possible with God.”.

Therefore if you need a financial miracle, ask for one. Whether you need an extra $500 for a car repair or need money to pay rent, asking for blessings is the quickest way to get your prayers answered. Acknowledge that God is a provider and will provide for your needs. 

How do you pray for a financial breakthrough with a Bible verse?

You can pray for a financial breakthrough with a Bible verse by reciting it at the beginning or end of your prayer. If you don’t have any memorized, you can read verses from the Bible at the beginning or end of your prayer. 

After reciting Bible verses, take a moment to reflect on them. How can you apply them to your life? What significance do they have in your current situation?  

What to do after you pray?

The most important thing you can do after using prayers and scriptures for financial breakthrough is trust and take action. If you want financial stability, focus on budgeting weekly and allow God to guide you while putting together the numbers.

If you prayed to eliminate your debt, start taking action by creating a debt repayment plan, and trust God will help you choose the right one. 

It’s important to trust the prayer by taking action. Act as if your prayer has been answered. 

If you enjoyed reading about prayers for financial breakthrough, read these next!

Prayers are a powerful way to create financial change!

There is no shame in asking God for financial success. Prayers for financial breakthrough can not only help you out of difficult situations but also help you focus on being financially stable and starting a new chapter in life.

Choose a prayer from the list above or create your own based on your financial needs. Remember to commit to the prayer daily, believe, and take action. When you trust the power of prayer, your prayers for starting a new life with your money will soon be answered. 

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Money tips for low-income families

Amongst today's economic climate, low-income families face tremendous challenges. One of the biggest obstacles is living in fear that a minor accident or one missed day of work will plummet a family into poverty.

Financial instability is something that thousands of families face.

Statistics of low-income families

Low income is often an umbrella term, but what does it mean? In the U.S. low income is defined as the adjusted income for a family that doesn't exceed 80 percent of the area median income. In 2020, that was an annual income of less than $52,492 in the United States for a family of four.

However, the annual income for low-income can look different depending on your state. For example, in Hawaii, $93,000 was considered low-income in 2020 by the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD). In Alaska, for a family of four, low income is an annual salary of $32,750.

With these varying numbers, many families fall below the national median income. Thus it's essential to know the federal poverty guidelines and the guidelines in your state.

The Poor People's Campaign has estimated that over 140 million families are poor or living in poverty in America. In addition, a report showed that Black and Hispanic families would need about $26,000 more per year to make ends meet.

Working full-time, caring for a family, and trying to meet your basic needs can feel overwhelming and isolating. Fortunately, there are many strategies you can implement to help you move from low income to financial stability.

Key tips to help low-income families thrive

To improve your financial situation, you must first learn how to manage your finances. If you need help starting, here are some tips to show you how.

1. Tap into banking resources

Being unbanked or underbanked creates many financial barriers. Instead of turning to payday lenders or other unsavory sources to meet your financial needs, here are some tips on accessing banking resources without getting ripped off.

Get a secured credit card

If you don't qualify for a regular credit card but want to start building up your credit score, a secured credit card is a great first step. With a secure credit card, you put down a deposit of usually a few hundred dollars.

Once you do that, you can borrow against that amount. Often, after using the card responsibly for some time, you'll be able to upgrade to a standard credit card. A secured credit card can also help you raise your credit score enough to apply for a new card.

Open a checking account

A checking account is one of the basic tools you should have in your personal finance arsenal. Unfortunately, some low-income families are denied access to traditional checking accounts. A setback that is often due to past issues such as unpaid fees or bounced checks.

If you do not have access to a traditional checking account, consider an online checking account. These accounts usually have more requirements than standard checking accounts, such as monthly fees. However, they are often better than the alternatives like cash-checking services.

Consider alternatives like lending circles

You can also turn to non-traditional sources to access money. One such place is a lending circle.

These groups of people lend each other money at no or low cost. The group helps each other raise money for things like down payments, car loans, or debt payoffs.

A lending circle works by having each member contribute a set amount each month, for example, $50. Then there is a rotation for which member receives the pooled funds that month.

If your lending circle has ten members who each put in $50 a month, every month, one member receives $500, and the process rotates until everyone has had a turn. Many lending circles, such as Mission Asset Fund, support individuals and the community.

Get help with immigration application filing fees

Lastly, if you are an immigrant family with a low income, you will likely face additional financial challenges and hurdles. One hurdle, in particular, is the cost of applying for immigration statuses such as citizenship, a green card, and DACA, among others.

In addition to leading circles, Mission Asset Fund provides 0% interest rate loans to immigrants to help pay their USCIS application fees. Payments on these loans are reported to the credit bureaus. As a result, participants have the chance to build up their credit scores at the same time.

2. Take care of your health

We don't have anything if we don't have our health, so the saying goes. But our health is often one of the first things we let slide when our bank account is low.

While many medical expenses are unavoidable, the more you care for your health, the less you end up paying in healthcare costs over time. A family with a low income can try these tips to invest in their health.

  • Replacing meat meals with fruits and vegetables can save you around $23 per week.
  • Quit smoking a pack of cigarettes a day, and you could save around $13,000 a year.
  • Schedule regular check-ups and take care of any health issues as soon as they arise.
  • Trying to lose weight if you are overweight. According to the CDC, the annual medical cost for obesity is $173 billion per year.

Using the above strategies, you'll improve your long-term health and learn how to stay healthy on a budget.

3. Earn more money

One of the best ways to go from low-income to middle or even high-income is to make more money. Of course, that's easier said than done, but there are ways to increase your income.

Go back to school or take online education courses (at low or no cost)

Getting a college education is a huge commitment and might take away some of your current earnings. However, it can significantly expand your future opportunities. If you are not ready to go back to a traditional school, there are plenty of online educational resources that are free or low-cost.

These include Harvard University's courses and Coursera, which can give you the skills you need to advance in your career or start a new one.

If you do want to go to school to earn a degree, there is financial aid available to low-income families for this, too. Some of the most popular forms of aid include federal, state, and college-specific grants and private scholarships.

Ask for more money

Another way to make more money? Ask for it. Negotiating with your current employer for a raise is one of the fastest ways to boost your income. Chances are you're overdue for a raise.

Start a side hustle

Lastly, starting a side hustle is another way to boost your income. While not every family with low income has the time to devote to a side hustle, you should consider one if you have some flexibility in your schedule.

A side hustle is one of the best ways to go from low-income to middle-income and beyond. Remember that you want to be intentional about saving part of any raise or extra income you earn.

Resources for low-income families

Making improvements on your own will benefit you. But sometimes, you need a little help from outside sources. Fortunately, the U.S. government offers many resources to help low-income families.

Health Resources

The cost of health insurance may seem out of reach, but some resources can fit within your budget. Here are the three main programs for healthcare coverage.

Medicaid

Medicaid is a combined federal and state program that provides basic health coverage to low-income families and individuals. Eligibility for Medicaid is based on the federal poverty level, which, for a family of four in 2023, is $30,000.

Individual states determine who is covered (some states expand coverage beyond the federal guidelines), so you should refer to your state's Medicaid program. Be sure to check your eligibility before applying.

The Children's Health Insurance Program (CHIP)

CHIP is another federal and state joint partnership that provides health insurance coverage to children and pregnant women.

CHIP generally covers uninsured children whose families cannot afford private health insurance but don't qualify for Medicaid because their income is too high.

While eligibility is based on income, every state has eligibility and coverage guidelines, so you should refer to your state's program for more information.

Medicare

Medicare is a federal government program that provides health insurance for people with disabilities and those aged 65 and older.

Eligibility is not based on income level, and any low-income families are eligible for Medicare (as well as Medicaid). If you qualify for both programs, you can apply for Medicaid to cover the services that Medicare doesn't.

Leverage resources for low-income families to save on food

If you're like most families, your grocery budget is a massive part of your monthly spending. However, you can shrink your monthly food expenses by taking a hard look at your grocery spending and leveraging cheap (yet healthy) meals.

Sometimes, you can even cut your budget by half! In addition to cutting back on your groceries, creating a monthly meal planner can help you prepare delicious meals and slash your budget.

While cutting back on groceries and meal planning will save you plenty, sometimes it's not enough. Food insecurity is a major problem that many needy families face. Fortunately, resources are available to you from both the government and private organizations.

The Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP)

SNAP, sometimes called food stamps, helps millions of Americans in need access to groceries and healthy food. In 2020, SNAP was so popular that the government increased its spending on the program by 50%, and 44 million people, up 20% from the prior year, accessed the program.

A family with low income can access SNAP benefits if their monthly net income falls at or below the poverty level. An eligible family of four can receive up to $782 a month. If you are one of the millions of Americans looking to access SNAP benefits, you can apply for them in your state.

Remember that each state has its application process, and you can find more information in the SNAP state directory.

In Illinois, to determine a family's eligibility for SNAP, they use an income that is 200 percent of the federal poverty line instead of the average 138 percent. So you may have greater accessibility depending on your state.

USDA Special Supplemental Nutrition Program for Women, Infants, and Children (WIC)

If you are pregnant, a new mother, or have an infant or child up to the age of five, you may be eligible to access WIC benefits.

WIC is administered by the states and provides nutrition and breastfeeding services, supplemental healthy foods, education, health care referrals, and other resources to help support your family.

You can check your eligibility and apply for WIC benefits on their state's page.

School meals

Public schools provide millions of children with free meals every day. But what happens when schools are closed, like during the pandemic?

Luckily, the government now allows these free meals to be picked up and taken home. The USDA has an online tool to find a nearby site to pick up meals for your family.

Food banks

The government is one of many places to turn to for help when struggling to feed your family. Local food pantries and meal programs across the country provide help for low-income families with no questions asked. Feed America has an online list to find food banks in your area.

Other community organizations

If you're struggling to feed your family, you can find help in your neighborhood. One such local organization, Lasagna Love, connects volunteers who prepare home-cooked lasagna meals with low-income families.

Families can sign up for a meal, which will be delivered to their home by a volunteer, "Lasagna Mama" or "Lasagna Papa."

Organizations like this are both a good resource for those in need and a good reminder that there are people out there willing to help you get back on your feet

Housing vouchers and subsidies

Many working families struggle to pay rent. With housing often being one of the most significant expenses, it's best to live where the rent is low and partially covered. The government has programs similar to house hacking that help low-income families lower their cost of living.

The Housing Choice Voucher Program

According to. HUD.gov, this program allows individuals and struggling families to find housing instead of living in subsidiary housing.

Within the program, you can locate an apartment, townhouse, or even your current residence and work with a Public Housing Agent {PHA) to see if your chosen place meets their requirements. If so, your PHA will agree to pay part of your rent, and you will cover the difference.

Public housing

Another option to pay a lower cost of rent is public housing. With this type of housing, HUD administers federal aid to local housing agencies (H.A) to manage specific apartments and single-family houses for low-income families and individuals.

These housing options allow rent amounts to be determined by a family's annual gross income and not the landlord. Therefore you will often pay less for rent than in other places.

Childcare resources for low-income families

Having a child in preschool can seem like a luxury for families with younger children since yearly tuition can be in the four figures.

Fortunately, state and local governments offer many childcare assistance programs. Here are some that may help you and your family.

Childcare discounts for employees

Some childcare centers offer discounts to the employees of businesses near their centers. Search for daycares near your work and ask about their employee discounts. There are even sibling discounts for families who enroll more than one child in a childcare facility.

Employer-sponsored dependent care flexible spending account

Similar to setting aside money for retirement, you can set assigned money specifically for childcare assistance. The employer-sponsored dependent care flexible spending account is not taxed, meaning you can take home more money and pay less in taxes.

Scholarships

Scholarships are another source of financial help for low-income families. Some scholarships can cover part or all of the tuition costs. Ask your current or prospective centers about scholarship opportunities they may have available.

State and government-funded programs

Government-funded programs, such as Head Start, offer quality childcare to low-income families at little to no cost. These programs are available across the United States and help childcare become more accessible.

Help with paying bills for low-income families

Although there are programs to help with larger bills such as rent and medical expenses, there are still many out-of-pocket costs to consider.

Electricity bills and phone bills eat away at your income as well. The good news is there are programs to help with those expenses.

Low-Income Home Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP)

If you are a family with a low income and need assistance with home energy costs, you might be eligible for LIHEAP. This program helps low-income families pay for heating and cooling, other home energy costs, and related repairs.

The best part is if you are eligible for a government benefit program such as SNAP, you may be automatically eligible for LIHEAP.

Federal support for paying phone bills

The Federal Communications Commission has created Lifeline to help families get discounted landline or cell phone services. Some participants are even eligible for a new phone.

Eligibility for this program is possible if you receive Medicaid, participate in Headstart or SNAP, or receive a federal veteran pension.

You may also apply if you live on tribal land or tribal housing, have supplemental security income, or receive federal public housing assistance.

Receive a discount on your internet bill

With the Affordable Connectivity Program, low-income households and individuals can receive a discount of up to $30 a month towards their internet bill.

Some requirements for eligible candidates include being a part of other government support programs such as SNAP, WIC, SSS, and many more.

Applications can be sent online or through the mail, and once accepted, you can apply the discount to your internet bill.

Opportunities for credits and further assistance for low-income families

Between worrying about how you will pay the next month's rent and whether you are saving enough for your kid's college, you might let some of these tax credits and government assistance slip through the cracks. Don't let that happen – here are some to be aware of.

Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC)

The EITC is a tax credit that reduces or eliminates taxes paid by families with low income. Your family might be eligible for up to a $7,430 tax refund, according to the IRS, (depending on family size).

The key is you must claim this credit on your tax return to get it, so many people miss out on the money. Check your eligibility to claim this credit on this year's taxes.

Child and dependent care credit

If you work and need to pay for childcare, this credit helps you offset childcare costs (or the costs to care for a dependent with disabilities).

Always be sure to speak with a tax professional to ensure you accurately take advantage of all the credits and deductions available to you.

Educate yourself, make a plan, and tap into available resources

Help for low-income families is out there, but you must take the first step to receive that help. You can start to move your family in the right direction by educating yourself and being proactive about your finances.

Remember to follow the tips here that apply to you and your family. By implementing financial strategies such as increasing your income, taking advantage of lending circles, and focusing on your health, you will see a big difference in your finances.

In addition, taking advantage of government resources can be a short-term solution when providing for your family. Remember that you can rise above your financial struggles!

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Focus on the good things

Are you the sort of person who is always positive, with a focus on the good things? Or do you see the world as a half-glass empty type of place?

While it seems like some of us are more inclined to see either the good or bad in the world, the truth is that positivity is simply a mindset. But sometimes when hard times hit, it can be hard to keep thinking positive thoughts.

Having a positive outlook doesn’t mean ignoring life’s difficulties. It can be hard to stay positive when something negative happens.

Here are some tips for learning to be positive, regardless of what life throws at you.

What is meant by "focus on the good"?

Focusing on the good means giving attention to the positive things that have happened in your life more so than the negative things.

Even when you are facing a tough time, the idea is to instead think about the positive aspects, like being grateful for what you do have, and practicing mindfulness.

A positive mindset can make you a happier person

In fact, giving thanks can actually make you happier. Practicing gratitude and giving thanks lead to more positive emotions.

While you still should deal with the bad things as needed, keeping your thoughts on good things can help you more in the long term.

That said, telling someone to stay positive is nice, but how do you actually do it, especially when times get tough?

Here are some key ways to focus on the good during difficult times:

How to stay positive during financial hardship

When you have a large bill to pay or face a sudden financial hardship, it’s challenging to remain joyful. Here are a few ways you can shift your mind to think positive thoughts.

Be thankful

Gratitude is an excellent skill to practice, whichever difficulties you face. Make a list of what you have, whether that’s a nice place to live, a family, a pet, or even things like clothes and other possessions.

Then write out one thing you are thankful for about each of those things until you’ve added something to each item on your list.

Create a budget

Creating a budget that works for you can help you to stay organized and keep track of your expenses. If you need help with creating budgets, there are a lot of different types of budgets out there that you can try.

Make a clear list of your money goals and create a budget to help you get there.

Get outside help

Sometimes things get to be too much. If that’s the case, there’s nothing wrong with getting outside help.

That can mean asking friends and family for advice, seeking the help of a financial advisor, or getting money coaching advice.

Seeking assistance from others can help you see that your situation is temporary, and they can help you think about the good things you do have.

How to focus on the good things when a relationship ends

It can be devastating when a relationship ends. While it can take a while to get over a breakup, there are things that you can do to ease your heartbreak.

Spend time with friends

Spending some time with your friends is a good way to feel positive about your situation. While heartbreak can be overwhelming, spending time with your friends can help you overcome your feelings.

And there’s no easier way to get over someone than when your friends are there with you to tell you how great you are and how your ex doesn’t deserve you anyways!

Write down your good qualities 

When faced with a breakup, it’s easy to start questioning yourself and what you did wrong. But sometimes breakups happen for reasons we can’t control.

Instead of beating yourself up over it, write down the things about yourself that you love. Focus on yourself and the good qualities you have.

Live in the present

Rather than analyzing everything that happened in the relationship, try to stay in the moment. Go for a walk, practice meditation, calm your busy brain, or do some yoga.

Try doing something active that keeps your mind focused on the present.

How to think positively when you have a difficult boss

Most people spend about a third of their life at work. When you have a difficult boss, it can be hard to think about the good things instead of the bad. Here are some tips to stay positive.

Create a gratitude journal

One way to focus on the good is to create a gratitude journal. Spend a few minutes every day writing down what it is you are thankful for.

It can be as simple as writing down a few ideas on a notes app on your phone during your work break.

Plan your week

Planning out your week can help you stay focused not only on what you need to do at work, but you can also plan out things that give you joy.

When you’re stressed out at work, think about the things you’re looking forward to instead.

Reward yourself

Dealing with someone who is difficult to work with can be a challenge. Reward yourself for getting through the workday with something you enjoy.

This can be spending time working on a hobby, watching a movie, or going to your favorite cafe for lunch.

How to stay focused on the positive when you lose someone 

Losing someone is devastating. While grieving takes time, there are things you can do to stay positive even as you go through the different stages of grief.

Connect with loved ones

When you’ve lost someone, it’s vital to connect with your loved ones. While you may feel like isolating yourself, seeking comfort from others can help you connect with others and honor the person who passed by sharing stories and memories with each other.

Process your feelings as they come

It’s important to process your feelings for your mental health. Processing how you feel is part of the healing process. Whatever you feel, make sure to acknowledge it instead of pushing those feelings away.

Focus on what makes you happy

One way to focus on the good things when someone close to you has passed on is to think about what gives you joy. That can be spending time with friends, a hobby, or watching your favorite series.

How to focus on the good when you lose your job 

Losing your job can not only cause financial stress but also lower your self-esteem. Here are some ways to keep a positive mindset even when you’re between jobs.

Stop comparing yourself to others

This one might seem easier said than done. Comparing yourself to others is an easy way to start thinking negative thoughts.

Instead of comparing yourself to your former colleagues or classmates, think about how far you’ve come over the years. Celebrate your progress and your wins.

Give yourself time

Sometimes when you lose your job you need to give yourself time. If you were let go and given a severance package, try to take a break before jumping back into the job market.

It can take some time to adjust and not constantly worry about why you were let go or what went wrong.

Sitting back and reflecting on your career goals can help strengthen your resume and also help you find a positive mindset despite being unemployed.

Find something to laugh about

Laughing is good for the soul and your health. In fact, laughing can help relieve stress.

While losing your job is stressful, finding a few moments to laugh can put you in a better mood, helping you see the good in the situation you are in.

Having a good attitude can help you handle challenging situations better

While having a focus on the good might be easy when times are easy, it becomes more difficult when faced with difficult times.

Instead of letting yourself think negative thoughts, find a way to think about the positive things even as you handle negative things that happen in your life.

Whether you’ve lost a job, or a loved one, or are facing financial hardships, there is hope.

Finding ways to laugh, practice gratitude, and live in the present can help you stay focused on the good things in life despite the difficult times.

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Transforming Your Relationship With Money

Transforming your relationship with money can influence almost every part of your life.

This is because your relationship with money goes beyond receiving a paycheck or paying bills. It is about how you think and feel about money, and how those thoughts and feelings contribute to how you use money.

There are even different money personalities, which makes your relationship with money unique. There's everything from savers to spenders and those who don't want to think about money at all.

Regardless, your relationship with money is important.

That said, in this article, we'll cover how you can transform your relationship with money by understanding your current relationship, setting goals and intentions for the relationship you want, and taking the steps to establish a healthy relationship with money.

Let's get into it!

Why is it crucial to have a healthy relationship with money?

Whether you've noticed it or not, you’ve already built a relationship with money. This relationship with money influenced your career choices, created certain spending habits, and even influenced where you ate for dinner.

This is why a healthy relationship with money is important as it positively impacts your interactions with money.

Having a healthy relationship with your money means understanding how money works. It means using your money to help you maintain good health, live a life with less stress, and invest in things that will support you long term.

A positive relationship is what leads to financial freedom and wellness.

What an unhealthy relationship with money can look like

Having an unhealthy relationship with money often leads to a stressful life because of poor money choices.

This can look like:

  • Maxing out credit cards
  • Avoiding managing your finances
  • Disliking or displaying anger toward financially secure people
  • Being afraid to spend money even on necessities

This poor relationship with money also affects the other relationships in your life.

For instance, finances are a big cause of divorce for many people and can cause money conflicts in families.

How a healthy relationship with money can look

When you have a healthy relationship with money everything seems to fall into place. The sun shines brighter, the birds sing a little louder, and you appreciate life more because you’re not worrying about money.

A healthy relationship with money includes:

  • Feeling good about the money you earn
  • Having a strong savings plan or emergency fund
  • Living debt free or actively paying off debt

If you have a relationship with money that could use some improvement, here’s more about transforming your relationship with money into something that is healthy and sustainable.

Steps to establishing a healthy relationship

It’s important to know that transforming your relationship with money will take time. Unfortunately, there are no shortcuts to unlearning the false beliefs about money and creating better habits. Yet, with a little time and effort, you'll start to see a difference.

1. Take an honest look at your current relationship

The first step is to really take an honest assessment and not a judgment of your current relationship with money. Remember that no matter where your relationship is, it doesn’t make you a good or bad person.

To understand your relationship, ask yourself the following questions.

  • What are my thoughts about money? Are they positive or negative?

In addition, here are some more in-depth questions to help you with transforming your relationship with money.

What are your parents’ relationships with money?

How you’ve been raised plays a big role in how you interact with money. Even if your parents didn’t teach you about money, you still learned through observing how they talked about and used money.

If your parents were extra frugal and only spent money on what was necessary,  in turn, you may have this same relationship or an opposite one.

The opposite would be a relationship where you overspend money because you didn't have certain luxuries as a child.

Are you mimicking the money relationships of those in your social circle?

Who you socialize with affects your relationship with money.

If your social group complains about money like it’s a plague, your behaviors and thoughts will begin to mirror those same negative beliefs. This can cause you to feel less optimistic and practical about money.

Your circle of influence has a bigger influence than you might realize.

Create an honest assessment of your relationship

Reflecting on your current relationship isn’t a ruling on whether you’re good or bad with money. When you’ve reflected on your current relationship, try to describe it in one or two non-judgemental statements. For example:

  • My relationship with money is one where I often worry about money.
  • In my current relationship with money, I overspend.

With a solid understanding and statement, you can take the next steps toward transforming your relationship with money.

2. Identify how you want your new relationship to be

Now is the time to leave the past in the past and focus on the future. What do you want your relationship with money to be?

Do you want your relationship to be fun yet responsible? For example, you can spend money on things you enjoy but also build savings.

When you identify this relationship, try to focus on what this relationship will look like in your life. How will your life, behaviors, and thoughts be different because of this new relationship?

How will this new relationship feel?

A simple place to start is to think about your values and make sure your relationship with money aligns with them.

3. Establish an intention or goal for your relationship

Now it’s time to zero in on your new and improved relationship and create an intention or a goal.

To do this, consider what types of outcomes you want for your new relationship.

Do you want to increase your savings? Feel confident in making more money? Or do you want to pay off debt?

Having an intention or intended outcome will help you to stay focused on building your new relationship.  It will help you change habits and create new routines that will help you to fulfill this new goal.

Some examples of financial goals are:

  • Positive habits such as paying yourself first
  • Living below your means
  • Creating a budget or a spending plan that is aligned with your values

Transforming Your Relationship With Money

4. Start setting a foundation for this new relationship

This is when you start putting steps into practice. When you think about the foundation of a house, it's the strongest part. What can be the strongest part of your new relationship?

The easiest way to start building this foundation is through education.  Understanding how money works,  how to use money, and understanding the financial structure can help with transforming your relationship with money.

Luckily, Clever Girl Finance offers hundreds of free educational courses to help you build this foundation.

5. Remember to give yourself grace

It’s important to remember that you’ve had this negative relationship for years. It’s ok if you don’t change things overnight.

The next time you think about giving yourself a hard time, try these techniques for giving yourself grace.

Forgive yourself for your past money mistakes

Even some of the wealthiest people have made mistakes with money, so you are not alone. Instead of dwelling on the mistake, forgive yourself and allow yourself to learn from the unfortunate situation.

Keep trying until you get it right

No matter if you're budgeting for the first time or trying to speak positively about money, you may not get everything right on the first attempt.  When you fall back into old habits, take note and ask yourself how you’re going to do better next time.

6. Seek professional guidance

Taking a look at happily married couples, a key to their positive relationship is marriage counseling. Similar to your relationship with money, sometimes you need a little outside help.

And when you seek help from financial experts, they can guide you to make better decisions with your money.

Professionals can help you create a plan for your money and help you to feel good about your money.

7. Celebrate your new relationship

We often celebrate other relationships in our lives, such as a new romantic partner, a new job, or becoming a parent. Why not celebrate your new relationship with money? A relationship that will indeed affect every other relationship we have in our life.

Here are some ways to celebrate:

  • Have a dance party in your house
  • Give yourself the afternoon off
  • Treat yourself to your favorite dessert
  • Visit your favorite outdoor space

How to avoid having an unhealthy relationship with money

Now that you know about transforming your relationship with money into a healthy one, let’s make sure that you can maintain this relationship. Like a romantic relationship, there is no going back to the lazy unappreciative partner.

Here is how to stay out of the cycle.

Avoid bad money habits by creating new money habits

Bad habits are always difficult to break. Instead of using your energy to try and change the bad habit, focus on creating new and better habits.

Better money habits can look like automating your savings, so you’re not waiting until you spend most of your paycheck to save.  Another new habit to incorporate is a money date.

A money date is when you dedicate a certain amount of time to go over your finances. The key to this is to make it fun.

You can get together with your friends and share a bottle of wine while you talk taxes. You can put on some music or light some candles while you review your budget.

The goal is to create habits around money that are enjoyable and easy, so you don’t think too much about doing them.

Pay attention to your thoughts and your beliefs about money

Do you think money is evil? Do you think people with a lot of money are bad? If you find yourself thinking that money is a bad thing, try on a new perspective.

Start to see the good that can be done with money. When money is in the hands of people who have good intentions, it can provide shelter, food, and resources. Money can support you in getting what you need.

When you start to change your thoughts around money use, you can see that money is a tool, and you have the power to use that tool how you want.

Spend time with people who support your healthy relationship with money

Imagine if you spend most of your time with co-workers that complain about work. In turn, you would start complaining about work and generate negative feelings toward your job. The same can apply to money.

Spend time with people who talk about growing their savings and starting a side hustle so they can be financially secure. Think about people in your life who are happy and work in environments they enjoy.

Those are often the people who have a positive relationship with money and can support you while you are transforming your relationship with money.

Remove things in your life that don’t support a healthy relationship

Like creating new habits, try eliminating things in your life that don’t support a healthy relationship with money.

This can look like switching from credit cards to using cash to stopping mindless spending. You can also stay off social media, so you aren’t tempted by influencers who are trying to persuade you to make certain purchases.

Even limiting your television viewing can be helpful when transforming your relationship with money by freeing you from the temptation of consumerism.

Relationship with money quotes: how and when to use them

If you’re needing a little support when it comes to bettering your relationship with money, here are some relationship with money quotes to keep you on the right path.

You can use these relationship with money quotes daily by reading them to yourself or writing them down frequently to keep a good mindset.

“Money is only a tool. It will take you wherever you wish, but it will not replace you as the driver." -Ayn Rand

This relationship with money quote reminds you that you are in charge of your money, don’t let your finances be in charge of you.

“Money does not buy you happiness, but lack of money certainly buys you misery." - Daniel Kahneman

This quote reminds us that money is not the source of happiness, but it’s important to living a sustainable life. Always seek the balance between having the right amount of money to provide for your needs and enough to help you do the things that make you happy.

“Wealth is the ability to fully experience life.” - Henry David Thoreau

Wealth is not simply about being rich. It’s about taking advantage of the best things in life and living life to its fullest.

Transforming your relationship with money is achievable

With these steps, you will create a relationship with money that is healthy, supportive, and thriving. Remember that this transformation will take time.

By starting with the simple step of understanding your current relationship with money and setting the intention of how you want your relationship to be, you are setting yourself up for a major change. It’s important to stick to your goal, seek professional help when needed, and give yourself grace.

Strong relationships take time and can last you a lifetime.

You can take things a step further by reading more of our articles about money and mindset and by taking one of our free financial courses!

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Worried About Losing Your Job? Key Steps To Take https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/losing-your-job/ Thu, 24 Mar 2022 10:22:00 +0000 https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/?p=9352 […]

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 I'm worried about losing my job

In times of economic uncertainty, or due to performance or work dynamics, you might get to a point where you start to worry about losing your job. The loss of a job can be extremely stressful and can also create a lot of financial hardship.

If the thought "I'm worried about losing my job" has crossed your mind, it's time to create a plan to minimize the financial impact in the event that you do lose your job.

Constant worrying can cause physical and emotional stress and in turn, inhibit your ability to take strategic action before anything actually happens. Creating a financial plan is one way to help manage your fears and reduce stress and anxiety about a job loss.

We are going to provide key actionable steps to take if you have a fear of losing your job or what to do if you lose your job, so you can prepare yourself financially!

7 Key Steps to take if you are worried about losing your job

Here are some key money tips to help you ease the transition until you find new employment if you have a fear of being fired or do happen to lose your job.

1. Start bulking up your savings

The first thing you want to do if you have a fear of being fired is to start saving as much money as you can while you are still employed. Studies show that people who have access to financial resources cope better with the overall impact of job loss.

This is because when you are less worried about finances, you do better from an emotional and mental health perspective.

So it's essential to prioritize the importance of savings.

To bulk up your savings effectively, it's important to lay out all your expenses. You also need to determine how much it costs each month for you to survive. A good starting point for how many months you should save for is 3 to 6 months.

As you determine what this amount is, also consider what things you can cut back on to minimize your expenses during the period you may be out of work. This would include any non-essential spending and purchases.

This savings is essentially your emergency fund and you should build funding it into your budget as soon as possible. This is the most important step if you are afraid of losing your job.

2. Be more frugal

So, what's one of the best things to do if you are about to lose your job? Learn how to be more frugal! Reducing expenses is essential, but you also need to become savvier with your money so you can keep more in your wallet.

Start couponing to cut your grocery costs, shop secondhand for clothing when you need it, and use cashback apps. There are tons of crazy ways to save more money, so you can bulk up your bank account and reduce your job loss anxiety!

3. Begin the process of looking for another job

The next step of taking strategic action is to get ahead by beginning the process of finding another job. So, start your job search now if you have a fear of being fired. Carve out some time to update your LinkedIn profile and make your resume attractive to employers.

You can also start doing research on companies and positions you can apply to. If you need assistance updating your resume or preparing for interviews there are several amazing websites with career advice that you can leverage. Be sure to check out our list of the best recession-proof jobs too!

You can also find tons of job postings on sites such as Indeed, Careerbuilder, and LinkedIn.

Don't forget to dig into your professional and personal network to let people know you are looking for work. You never know who might give you a lead to help you find a new job.

4. Take advantage of current employment benefits

Be sure to take advantage of any current employment benefits before losing your job. For instance, leverage your health insurance coverage to get any medical concerns you have attended to and fill your prescriptions.

Choosing multi-month over monthly prescriptions if possible can save you a ton of money and carry you over while you are out of work. You can ask your doctor about this option.

Healthcare can be a massive out-of-pocket expense. So you want to make sure that if you have benefits to use, you actually use them if you need to before you lose your job.

Be sure to find out what the options are to extend your healthcare coverage after you are laid off.

Also, if you have vacation or sick days, ask your employer what happens in the event of a job loss. There might be a payout for the unused days and you can put this money towards your emergency fund. Knowing these details in advance can help reduce job loss anxiety.

5. Research unemployment benefits

The next step is to research the details of unemployment benefits if you are about to lose your job. Unemployment benefits are intended to replace lost wages in the event that you get laid off and qualify to receive this benefit.

Formally known as unemployment insurance benefits, this benefit covers workers who have lost their jobs through no fault of their own and meet certain other eligibility requirements.

You can determine the qualification requirements for unemployment by visiting the website for your state's unemployment insurance benefits. Your state's website will also provide you with specific details on how to file. Filing for unemployment compensation immediately is what to do if you lose your job.

6. Explore additional sources of income

Exploring additional sources of income can help to minimize the impact of losing your job until you find a new one. Some ideas to make money without a job include:

Sell stuff for cash

The first thing I did when I was worried about losing my job was look for stuff to sell for money. You won't believe how much stuff you have that you probably don't even use that you can sell to sock some money back. So start looking through things you own that you can sell online for cash!

You can sell stuff on sites such as eBay, Etsy, and Facebook Marketplace. Not only do you make some extra income, you declutter your home too! So, it's a win-win.

Start freelancing

If you think you are about to lose your job then consider finding freelance work to supplement your income. You could start it as a side hustle beforehand so you can have money flowing in. There are plenty of ways to start freelancing.

For instance, you could become a freelance writer, virtual assistant, or even a freelance marketer. Plus, these freelancing gigs pay pretty good money so you can easily bulk up your emergency savings fast.

Find a part-time job

Another option is to find a part-time job. That way, you have additional income just in case. You could even find work-from-home jobs.

For example, data entry, transcription, and bookkeeping are just a few good-paying part-time jobs you can do from home. You could also work them as weekend jobs. Having a backup job reduces job loss anxiety.

Keep in mind that in order to stay afloat, you might need to take a job below your skillset or work multiple jobs and that's ok. There's no shame in doing what you need to do to boost your income before you find another job.

Start your own business

You may be thinking "How can I start my own business if I don't have the money?" Well, the great news is, there are plenty of businesses you can start with no money! For instance, pet sitting, flipping free items, and cleaning houses, are all things you can start with no money.

For more ideas check out our post "A Guide For How To Start A Business With No Money."

This is the perfect way to boost your income if you are about to lose your job! Plus, it may just be the motivation you need to finally pursue something you love instead.

Get a roommate or rent out a spare room

Basic living expenses are on the rise. Which can make things much more difficult financially. However, you can get crafty and reduce even your essential living expenses.

For instance, you can get a roommate to split the rent with. Or, you could even rent out a spare room on Airbnb! This can drastically reduce how much you are paying in rent or mortgage payments.

Of course, creating multiple streams of income is a fantastic financial move whether you are about to lose your job or not. In fact, millionaires have an average of seven income streams...so keep that in mind! The more income streams you create, the less financial worry you have.

7. Expand your skills

Expanding your skillset is one of the best things you can do if you are worried about losing your job. Learning new skills can make you a valuable employee or even help you continue on a new career path.

The great news is, there are plenty of ways to learn new skills without spending a ton of money. For instance, Google offers free career courses on topics such as UX Design, Data Analytics, IT Support, and Project Management. You can also take free courses on Canva Design!

Learning new skills will drastically reduce your job loss anxiety because you will feel confident in your ability to find another job fast.

Make a backup plan if you're worried about losing your job!

Now you know what to do if you lose your job or have a fear of being fired. Thinking about losing your job can be scary and stressful but with a plan in place, you'll be in a better position to weather the worst-case scenario.

Don't allow job loss anxiety to prevent you from taking action. Instead, plan ahead for the worst and hope for the best. It will give you the peace of mind that you will get through any temporary impact of a potential job loss.

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How To Break The Cycle Of Shame Around Money https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/cycle-of-shame/ Sat, 11 Sep 2021 13:00:55 +0000 https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/?p=13870 Do you feel like you're bad with money? Learn how to break the cycle of shame and heal your relationship with money with these five tips.

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Cycle of shame

Do you ever look back on certain money decisions you’ve made in the past and thought, “My gosh… how could I have been so careless?!” The shame and humiliation feel real — and the more you think about it, the more embarrassed you become. In times like these, you may be experiencing a cycle of shame around money.

Learning how to break this shame cycle and heal your relationship with money can help you shed your disappointment and chart a path forward. So here’s how to do it.

What is the cycle of shame?

Before you can break the cycle of shame, you must first fully understand what it looks like.

Shame is defined as “an intensely painful feeling of being fundamentally flawed.” It’s a self-destructive behavior that makes you want to run and hide. It can manifest into anxiety, anger, secrecy, and, in extreme cases, suicide if you feel there’s no way out.

For example, a person experiencing money shame may be humiliated by how much credit card debt they have. They can’t stand how powerless they feel when they see their credit card statements, so they go on a shopping binge to make themselves feel better.

The next day, they feel ashamed at how much more debt they’ve racked up, so they continue to buy more things to temporarily wash away the pain. It’s a vicious cycle.

Guilt vs. shame: There’s a big difference

You shouldn’t confuse guilt with shame when it comes to money because they’re two totally different things.

Guilt makes you think you’ve made a mistake (e.g., “I made a bad decision with my money" - Hence feeling guilty). Shame makes you think you are the mistake (e.g., “I’m terrible with money.” ).

Guilt motivates you to learn from your mistakes and do better. Shame leads you to believe there’s no way out, so why start trying now?

How the cycle of shame harms your relationship with money

Money shame is a real problem in the U.S. No one is born knowing how to manage their money, yet we’re all expected to do it flawlessly from the start. If we show any signs of struggle, we beat ourselves up about it. We internalize the shame and convince ourselves that we’re destined to be bad with money forever.

If you’re not careful, this cycle of shame can lead to a downward spiral where you:

If you’ve experienced suicidal thoughts due to money shame, contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at 800-273-8255. Suicide is preventable, and there is a way out. Please remember that financial stress can be temporary and you can have the life you deserve!

5 Tips for breaking the shame cycle around money

So no matter how bad your situation is, you have the power to break free from the cycle of shame you’re experiencing around money. Here are five tips to help you heal:

Cycle of shame

1. Figure out why you’re experiencing money shame

The first step is all about getting to the root of the problem. Dig into your past and figure out where your money shame is coming from. Did you take out a loan without fully understanding the terms? Did you fall for a forex trading scam? Were you taught as a child that all debt is evil, and now you're riddled with shame for having it?

Once you’ve figured out the cause of your money shame, write it down on paper so you can visualize it and start the healing process. 

For example, you may write, “No one taught me about credit cards when I was young. When offers started flooding through the mail during college, I blindly racked up charges without fully understanding the interest behind it. I’ve been shaming myself for having so much credit card debt, but now I’m making a plan to move forward.”

You have the power to rewrite your money story!

2. Open up to your loved ones about your money situation

You’ve likely been keeping the source of your money shame a secret for years. You’ve bottled up the resentment you feel, too afraid to let anyone in.

The next step to breaking the shame cycle is to open up to someone you trust. Someone who won’t judge you and will accept your situation as it is. Share your story with this person, and talk openly about your struggles.

Not only can a loved one help hold you accountable as you break the cycle of shame, but they may even have advice if they’ve been in your shoes. In the case of credit card debt, for example, they may have tips on how to lower your interest rate or pay it off quicker.

3. Replace your negative thoughts and habits with positive ones

Money shame is often accompanied by destructive behaviors and thoughts that can be hard to escape. So one way to break free is by creating positive habits that counteract the negative ones.

For example, if you think you’re bad with money, make a list of mantras you can recite when you need a quick reminder of how awesome you are. You may say things like:

  • I control money, money doesn’t control me.
  • My finances don’t scare me because I have a plan.
  • I am worthy of a solid financial foundation.

Then, take small actions to back up these positive beliefs. Move $20 to your savings account each time you get paid. Pay an extra $50 on your credit card bill. Read one financial self-help book a month. Pretty soon, all these tiny actions will compound and melt your shame into pride.

4. Get professional help breaking the cycle of shame with money

If you’ve tried some of these tips already and still can’t break the shame cycle, consider hiring a therapist or financial coach. These professionals can help you identify the root cause of your shame, evaluate how your relationship with money affects your financial decisions, and make a plan for forging on.

5. Practice self-love and compassion regularly

Believe you have what it takes to break the cycle of shame. Also, practice self-love and never stop fighting the inner dialogue that tells you you’re not worthy. Research shows that self-belief is an important predictor of success. When you believe you have what it takes to reach your goals, it’s more likely to happen. And when adversity gets in your way, you’re more determined to overcome it.

Break the cycle of shame by starting with one small action

What one small action can you take today to break your cycle of shame around money? It doesn’t have to be anything extravagant. You can start small by:

Just choose one small thing you can do this week to change your financial situation. You’ve got this. We believe in you.

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Finding Strength To Work Through Financial Challenges https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/finding-strength-to-work-through-financial-challenges/ Fri, 16 Jul 2021 13:48:33 +0000 https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/?p=12594 […]

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Finding strength

Every one of us has faced struggles with our money at one time or another. Whether we struggle to make ends meet for a brief temporary period or for years, it’s simply a fact of life that money isn’t always easy. But we are all capable of finding strength to work through whatever financial curveballs and challenges we may face.

I wish more schools taught the ability to handle life’s tough moments. Resilience, or the “ability to easily recover from or adjust to misfortune or change,” is so important for building a healthy life. We all need to know how to handle adversity, in our finances and many other areas of our lives.

Even though inner strength and resilience aren’t as concrete of lessons as algebra or grammar, they are skills that you can apply every day. So, if you're going through difficult times remember not to be too hard on yourself because we all face financial challenges.

Before we get into how to work through the tough times let's review what types of challenges you could be facing.

What are some of the most common financial challenges?

Let’s start by looking through some of the most common financial struggles people deal with these days.

Medical bills

Perhaps you went through a major medical incident or are still facing ongoing medical expenses. Healthcare costs can be terrible. A visit to the emergency room can be hundreds to thousands of dollars.

Add in multiple days of hospital stays or the cost of care for chronic illness, and you’ve got a difficult financial situation for most people.

Student loan debt

Unless you’ve been hiding under a rock for the past decade, you know that student loan debt in the U.S. has skyrocketed. The average student loan debt was recently listed at $37,693 per borrower. Those monthly payments can be a real burden especially if you have a high amount in student loans.

Credit card debt

If you’ve used credit cards (sometimes to float your way through financial challenges), you may have created a bigger problem than the original one. Credit cards usually come with high interest rates.

If you aren’t paying them in full every month, you could have racked up debt that’s seemingly impossible to get out of.

Living paycheck to paycheck

When it’s a battle every month to get all of your bills current, you’re living a paycheck to paycheck lifestyle. That’s a scary way to live, not knowing for sure whether you’ll pay all your bills next month.

Why finding strength matters

There are plenty of other circumstances that could make it tough to manage your money day-to-day. Whatever your financial challenges may be, you need to be ready to tackle them head-on instead of running away.

Money isn’t likely to go away, and our individual struggles with finances won’t go away without taking some action. Perhaps you’re like my eight-year-old, who would love to abolish money entirely and just give everyone plenty to live on. Unfortunately, that’s not a realistic expectation.

That’s why finding inner strength to deal with any financial troubles you face is key to success and contentment.

How to start finding strength and overcome your financial challenges

Let’s talk about some strategies to help you find strength every day to improve your life and financial situation.

1. Find your purpose

One key to not letting trouble with money get you down is to have a clear purpose in life. What are you passionate about? What kind of lifestyle do you desire that aligns with who you truly are?

Part of finding inner strength is identifying what your purpose in life is. Take a step back and really think about if you are aligning your finances and lifestyle with who you are and what you want.

2. Determine your financial goals

Setting financial goals is an important step in finding strength. By creating goals you can refer back to them in moments of weakness. For instance, if you have a problem with overspending, a visual reminder of your goals can help you focus on what's more important to you.

Create a financial vision board with your goals and hang it where you see it every day to keep you motivated.

3. Identify your financial challenges

Before you can nail down what your goals will be, you have to identify your biggest financial struggles. This may be painful, as it’s often humbling to notice where we may have messed up.

Or, it may bring up hard memories of circumstances beyond your control—if someone wronged you financially, it hurts to remember that moment.

But we can’t fix a problem without first identifying it. So whether you need to write down all of your money troubles or you just know in your mind what they are, face them honestly. Be specific in what changes need to happen.

Do you need to quit spending on certain non-essential items? Maybe you need to talk to your partner about a game plan to save for a home down payment. Or perhaps try to organize your budget. With your financial problem at the forefront of your mind, decide what you have to change to make it better.

4. Make a plan to improve your financial situation

Once you know your money struggles, decide how you can best start making things better. Whatever the problem is, you likely won’t fix anything without first making a plan.

Remember to start small. When you want to make your money situation better, some of us are capable of making massive changes all at once.

But for a lot of us, we need to take baby steps. As behavior scientist B.J. Fogg discusses in his book Tiny Habits: The Small Changes That Change Everything, most people are successful in changing habits when they scale down their goals to be very small.

For example, if your credit card debt is $20,000, don’t try to pay the entire balance in one week (unless you actually have the money lying around).

Instead, look at your budget and figure out how long it’ll take to pay off if you put $100 towards it monthly, or some other amount. Use a debt payoff plan to help you focus on getting rid of your debt fast.

5. Find out how you can change your habits

Although many financial struggles are due to outside forces, there's a possibility that your money habits played a part in them too. Besides the “tiny habits” method, there are many great strategies for habit change. The following comes from Gretchen Rubin, author, and podcaster:

  1. Monitoring: Keep track of things you want to change (for example, have a strict budget so you always know where your money is going).
  2. Accountability: Get someone lined up to help you stay motivated.
  3. Pairing: Pair up new habits with something you already do or enjoy doing.
  4. Identity: Think of yourself as good with money, and you can become good with money.

Find your strength by swapping out bad money habits for good ones and watch your finances flourish!

6. Find your strength by managing your mind

An important skill in finding strength to deal with challenges is to take control of your mind. Your thoughts often determine your actions, so paying attention to how you think and your mental wellness will help you to handle trials with greater ease.  First, in taking charge of your thoughts, banish excessive negativity.

This doesn’t mean ignoring problems, but not letting every thought you have be a negative one. Here are some tips for keeping it positive:

Learn from past mistakes; don’t dwell on them

To find your strength you have to acknowledge any mistakes you’ve made in the past. But don’t think so much about how you messed up that you can’t move forward. The best thing to do with our mistakes is to learn from them.

For example, my husband and I were foolish and bought a timeshare some years ago, even though we knew it wasn’t a good decision. We eventually got out of the deal (losing a good chunk of money in the process).

But we had to just accept our mistake and move on. Now we know better and can make wiser choices!

Keep perspective

Your financial troubles may be really bad, it’s true. But in most cases, even if you think your problems are the worst in the world, it’s almost 100% sure that you can improve things.

Avoid the blame game

Sadly, you might have someone else to blame for your money troubles. Maybe a former partner racked up debt that you’re now responsible for. Or a criminal stole your identity and wrecked your credit score.

A key to finding strength to work through your problems is to avoid spending too much time and energy on blame. The fact is that blaming others for your troubles does you no good (even if you’re completely justified in blaming them). So just recognize the situation, take a deep breath, and move on.

7. Finding strength by quieting your thoughts

The overwhelming nature of life can make it hard to quiet your mind. After all, most of us can’t eat, sleep, and breathe money all day long. We also have to manage families, health, careers, and the everyday mundane stuff like keeping the kitchen clean.

A powerful tool in finding inner strength is the ability to calm your mind. I don’t know about you, but when my mind is racing with seventeen different thoughts about what has gone wrong or could go wrong tomorrow, I freeze. I can’t make the smart decisions I need to make to take care of myself when I can’t calm down.

Not all of these suggestions will work for you, but think about ways you might quiet your thoughts. This will help you to find your inner strength to tackle your financial struggles.

Meditate

Meditation is more accessible to you than you might think. Meditation is one of the quickest tools for finding inner peace and quiet. It is really about mindfulness, being aware of the present moment.

Maybe you won't totally "shut off" your mind, but by drawing your attention to your thoughts and your breath, you can lower your stress and work towards solutions.

Walk in nature

If sitting in a meditation pose sounds intimidating, you might get similar benefits from going out into nature. Taking a walk among trees and birds, breathing in fresh air, and getting away from your to-do lists can be game-changing.

I know I feel a lot better about my problems after a hike to the top of a local hiking trail. Focusing on my footsteps and the beauty around me helps me forget about problems for a while.

Turn off the tech

We all know how much our smartphones and our email can disrupt our minds. Just ask yourself what your first instinct is when you get bored—perhaps standing in line at the DMV or watching your child do a cartwheel for the hundredth time. Do you reach for your phone?

I know being online constantly doesn’t help my stress levels. It’s pretty tough to think clearly when we’re bombarded by so many things demanding our attention.

So a good way to quiet your mind is to take a break from technology, perhaps unplugging from your phone on weekends or de-installing social media apps that ruin your free time.

8. Finding strength through community and connection

One thing most of us need to face challenges is community. The pandemic showed us this truth more clearly than ever before, as we were forced out of the usual gatherings where we’d build connections with one another.

Connecting with other people is as essential to your financial journey as to any others, like parenting or fitness or spiritual growth. Cultivating relationships is an important aspect of living a richer life.

Find financial role models

Look for people you can look up to. Think about bloggers, podcasters, authors, and anyone else with expertise in financial matters. Search out local or virtual communities where you can learn and find inspiration.

Perhaps there’s a regional group that meets where you can discuss your financial goals (or you might even start your own group)!

Foster relationships with accountability partners

Whether this is with someone you meet in one of the communities mentioned in the last section or a friend you’ve known since kindergarten, find your people.

It’s important to foster relationships with people who care about your financial goals. It’s pretty hard to complete a financial challenge if you only hang out with friends who pressure you to spend money you don’t have.

So be sure to keep at least one like-minded person around. Have someone in your corner that you can call when you’re frustrated or tempted to break with your stated financial plans. You’ll find that it’s much easier (and more fun) to live a disciplined financial life if you have a buddy doing it with you.

9. Take care of your physical health

How we feel in our bodies truly impacts our decisions every day. So a good way to start working through financial challenges is to go back to the basics. Taking care of your body can lead to other good decisions in every area of your life.

Pay attention to your physical needs by watching your diet, sleep, and activity level. Each of these can result in more energy and a more positive outlook to deal with troubles as they come. Physical health can help you find inner strength as well.

Physical activity

Do you need to become a bodybuilder to handle your finances? Of course not! But regular physical activity has so many benefits. Kelly McGonigal, Ph.D., and author of The Joy of Movement, says that exercise of any intensity level offers benefits. As you find physical strength, you can also find your strength inwardly to overcome challenges.

McGonigal says people are less impacted by stressful events on days when they exercise. “You’re more resilient because of how movement makes you feel about yourself and your capacity to handle challenges.” Whether you love high-intensity workouts, running, yoga, walking, or something else, there's something out there for you.

Sleep

We need a reasonable amount of sleep each night in order to be productive and to feel our best. Skimping on sleep can impact our ability to make decisions, and we need to keep our minds in good shape to handle our finances.

So remember that as an adult, your body needs 7-9 hours of sleep every night, and don’t feel guilty about making that happen!

Healthy eating habits

Rounding out your body’s core needs for success and happiness is eating healthfully. It can be hard to focus on these basic needs if you’re in financial distress, but try to follow a balanced diet as best you can. You’ll never regret taking care of yourself.

10. Believe in yourself

It may sound corny, but believing in yourself can improve your chances of making good things happen. This goes back to the strategy of managing your thoughts. If you don’t trust yourself to do the best thing for your finances, then who can you trust?

Finding strength to keep going when money is tight depends on your commitment to believing in yourself. No matter what mistakes you might have made years ago, it’s not too late to change course.

Believe that you deserve a better financial future, and believe you have the skills and determination to make that your reality.

Finding strength will help you overcome your financial challenges

No one cares about your finances more than you do, so give your financial life the respect it deserves. By focusing on where you want to be in the future, you can learn to quiet the negative thoughts and push towards a better life.

Finding inner strength to cross over financial hurdles will serve you well in your relationships, your health, your career, and everywhere that matters. Get help finding strength and start taking back control of your money with our free financial courses!

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The Importance Of Savings: How I Lived A Year Unemployed https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/the-importance-of-savings/ Fri, 25 Jun 2021 13:57:22 +0000 https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/?p=12179 […]

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Importance of savings

This past year was a whirlwind of events. Becoming unemployed was something I never imagined I would go through. The first lesson I took away from being unemployed this year is the importance of savings and that no one (including me) is immune to hard times.

Things can happen unexpectantly that you can’t control. You can, however, control your perspective and how prepared you are before they happen. Here's my story of how I survived being unemployed and what I learned.

What happened when I lost my job

I couldn't believe I lost my job. I didn't have a backup plan and had zero job prospects. And so, I had no choice but to tap into my savings safety net, which would only cover three months of my living expenses. What could go wrong?

My three months of cash for living expenses went by quickly, even after spending a few weeks at my parent’s house camped out from the world. I needed more time and more money. This was a key lesson in the importance of savings because I realized how quickly I went through the money.

Cashing out my investments

So, I made a 911 call to my financial planner and withdrew money from a fund I had invested for short-term savings. I also got a part-time job too. This allowed me time to finish publishing the book I had been working on.

When summer came, I had a book and more direction in my career, so I quit my part-time job and started applying for full-time jobs again. I thought I would have a job by the middle of summer, but that didn’t happen.

Again, I needed to tap into another short-term savings fund I had been building for a new car or a wedding. Slowly, all my savings were disappearing.

What I learned about my finances and being unemployed

It still pains me to admit that I had to take money out of my Roth IRA just last week. I have lived by every finance rule, and now, I've broken every finance rule.

Before I lost my job, I didn’t understand why people couldn’t save or pay off debt, but now I do. I have more compassion for people that are in a tough spot.

I understand the importance of savings and how being debt-free is essential to unforeseen life events. Life happens to even the most prepared and financially secure, and suddenly every rule goes out the window when you need to survive. I totally get it now.

The importance of savings

I would not have accomplished what I did if I had debt or didn’t have savings. I’m proud of myself that I was able to survive a year on my savings. I went on trips, spent more time with my family, and continued to live my life. I just ate more homemade meals and didn’t go shopping.

I’m choosing to have a positive perspective through it all. I have hard days, but I can see how others will benefit from my life experience. If people learn the importance of savings after hearing my story, then all I’ve gone through was worth it.

How to prepare for unemployment by focusing on the importance of savings

So, now that you know the importance of savings and how I was able to live a year without a job, here are some tips to prepare you in case you would lose your job.

1. Pay off debt

If you can make progress paying off your debt, DO IT. Get rid of it. Trust me; it comes in handy. Being debt-free takes a huge financial burden off of you. Create a debt reduction strategy and try to knock out your debt as soon as possible.

2. Build your emergency fund

So, you know the importance of savings but may feel you don't make enough to actually save as much as you need. If you have a job (even a low-paying one), put money aside with every pay period. It may surprise you just how fast it can add up.

When you need it, you’ll be glad you have it. Calculate three to six months of essential living expenses and make that your goal. Building your emergency fund can help you in unexpected events, such as being unemployed.

3. Contribute to your retirement savings

It's important to make regular contributions to an IRA or 401(k). I learned that because I made contributions to my Roth IRA, and since it’s been open for five years, I could take out what I contributed without paying a penalty charge. However, bulking up your emergency fund can prevent you from tapping into your retirement savings accounts.

Knowing the importance of savings can prevent financial mishaps

My goal in sharing my experience is to teach you the importance of savings and encourage and motivate you. If you face some similar to what I went through, remember, you will get past it.

Prepare for unforeseen events such as being unemployed by bulking up your emergency fund, paying off debt, and finding ways to make money without a job.

Do you need some help preparing? Learn how to ditch debt, save more money, and build wealth with our free financial courses!

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How To Handle Financial Insecurity: 5 Tips https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/how-to-handle-financial-insecurity-5-tips/ Thu, 03 Jun 2021 21:42:26 +0000 https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/?p=11813 […]

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Financial Insecurity

Are you suffering from financial insecurity? Being financially insecure can come in many forms. For example, my grandmother lived through the great depression, which resulted in her becoming a hoarder. The fear of another depression occurring came with a high price of bad habits and insecurities. Maybe you have also experienced this type of fear, whether personally or with someone you know.

While there may be some things you can't control, you can work on overcoming your insecurities about money. Learning how to beat your financial insecurity can help you ditch debt, save money, and start building wealth!

5 Tips to help you beat your financial insecurity

Whether your financial insecurity stems from childhood or an unsupportive spouse these 5 tips will help you overcome it easier!

1. Combat financial insecurity with positive affirmations

One of the most powerful ways to combat your financial insecurity is with positive affirmations. In fact, MRI evidence suggests an increase in neural pathways when people practice self-affirmations! This means that you can change your actions by "rewiring" your brain with more positive thoughts.

So rather than saying "I'm always broke," you need to say, "I have an abundance of money!" By affirming you have an abundance of money, you will begin to take action and begin to develop habits to make it true.

For example, when you go to spend money on something you don't need, your positive affirmation will motivate you to stop impulse purchases and work towards your financial goals.

2. Create short-term & long-term goals

What are your financial short-term and long-term goals? For example, do you want to buy a house, take a dream vacation, or save $10,000?

Creating financial goals can help you overcome your financial insecurity because it will help you focus on something positive rather than your negative emotions around money. One of the best ways to motivate you to achieve your goals is to create a vision board.

A vision board is motivating because it is a visual aid that constantly reminds you of your goals. You decorate it with pictures, quotes, and positive affirmations that you want to accomplish.

For example, your board may have a picture of Hawaii or quotes about being debt-free. Whatever your goals are, this is a great way to stay motivated.

3. Get financially educated

Many people are financially insecure because they don't understand certain aspects of their finances. For instance, some are afraid to invest, so they just avoid it altogether.

Rather than letting your financial insecurity prevent you from succeeding, get educated about all things money!

Reading finance books, watching videos, and listening to podcasts, are fantastic ways to learn everything you need to know to get your money right.

4. Take control of your finances

A big part of being financially insecure is having what is called money blocks. For instance, you may avoid your finances, which results in racking up debt and paying bills late.

The best way to overcome your financial insecurity about money is to take control of it! Do these 3 things to start taking control of your finances now.

Make a budget

The very first step to start controlling your money is to create a budget. A budget helps you know exactly how much money you are making and spending.

Be sure to pick a budgeting method that is easy for you because it will help you avoid challenges and stick with it. Otherwise, if you pick something too complicated or time-consuming, you will likely not use it.

One of the most popular budget methods is the 80/20 rule because it's super simple to do. This is where you save 20% and use the other 80% for everything else. This helps you prioritize saving money without making it too complicated.

Use a spending journal

Using a spending journal will not only help you track your transactions, but will also help you identify your financial insecurity by documenting your emotions too.

For example, in your journal, you would write down what you bought, how much it was, and how you were "feeling" when you purchased it. This is a powerful tool that can help you stop wasting money and take back control of your finances.

Automate your finances

Simplify your budget by automating your finances. This makes taking control of your money much easier because you set up your bills and savings on auto-pilot.

For instance, you can set up an automatic transfer of $50 a week to your savings accounts. This prevents you from spending that money and bulking up your bank account instead. It will also keep you from paying your bills late which saves you money in late fees.

5. Celebrate your financial wins

Do you see a pattern of positivity here? Celebrating your financial wins by rewarding yourself reinforces good habits. When you treat yourself for accomplishing a goal, it motivates you to keep pursuing other goals too! This is a huge way to stop you from being financially insecure. It will boost your confidence and self-worth.

There are a ton of ways you can treat yourself even on a budget! For instance, you could go to the park or take a staycation.

Just make sure it's something you enjoy, so you'll want to conquer more goals and treat yourself more often. So start celebrating your financial wins no matter how big or small they are!

You can overcome your financial insecurity

The important thing to remember is to be patient with yourself. Overcoming your financial insecurities will take time and effort. However, with these tips, you will be able to combat being financially insecure.

Starting with positive self-talk will motivate you to take action because it reinforces good money habits.

So why not get even more financial help and motivation with our FREE courses and worksheets!

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This is Why I’m Broke! 7 Money Blocks to Fix Now https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/money-blocks-this-is-why-im-broke/ Wed, 26 May 2021 10:49:00 +0000 https://clevergirlcgf.wpengine.com/?p=6594 […]

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eMoney mindset

Money blocks are real. And at one point or another, most of us have experienced them. You might actually read this article and as a result of learning about these blocks have an ah-ha moment and tell yourself, This why I'm broke! This is because it can be really hard to realize that it's a money block that's keeping you broke.

Most people just assume that to stop being broke, you need to change your financial habits, but there's more to it than just that. That's why it's important to learn what these blocks are and how to remove money blocks.

What is a money block?

But what is a money block anyway? A money block is a series of thoughts, a mindset, or a feeling that gets in the way of you accomplishing financial success. It could be getting out of debt, saving a ton of money, increasing your income streams, or affording the lifestyle of your dreams.

7 common money blocks and how to fix them

Here are 7 money blocks you can identify and work on breaking through to achieve financial success.

So, have you ever found yourself thinking things like:

I have to be a millionaire to afford that.

There's no way I can save all that money.

How will I ever pay off all this debt?

Well, those are classic examples of limiting beliefs, many of which we may have even learned in childhood. Believe it or not, we have hundreds of them running through our minds every single day.

So how do you combat this? It's all about being conscious of what you're thinking and then reversing your thoughts. Over time, you'll find yourself doing this automatically.

So going forward, instead of thinking about what you can't do, focus on what you can do by building an abundance mindset such as:

I can afford that and I'm going to figure out a way to get there.

I'm going to create a savings plan to be able to save all that money.

I will pay off all my debts.

In addition, make it a goal to start your day off positively and end it positively because it will help you combat those negative thoughts. Try to pray, meditate, and/or journal. Find what works to get you into the right headspace. (Be sure to check out our list prayers for financial breakthrough!)

When you are in the right headspace and thinking the right thoughts that don't limit what you can achieve, you will be motivated and more inclined to achieve financial success.

2. Negative-self talk

Thinking negative or limiting thoughts causes money blocks. But speaking them out loud amplifies them. Speaking negatively or saying limiting words makes those words tangible and gives them power because they have now been said. Plus, all of this negative self-talk can lead to stress, impacting your health!

Be mindful of the words that come out of your mouth because what you say will manifest. If you catch yourself saying something negative, immediately adjust your verbiage and rephrase your statement in a positive light.

Keep in mind that your words and thoughts are very much related. The more you say something, the more you think it, and the more you think something, the more likely you are to say it.

Both combined (your thoughts and your words) tie deeply into your motivation, mindset, actions, and perseverance in all situations, including accomplishing financial success.

Not having a rhyme or reason around what you want to accomplish with your finances will lead you into block after block after block. You'll find excuses as to why things are not working out. Also, other less important things will take up your time and financial resources, and you'll lose motivation fast.

If your financial goals (and life goals in general) are not specific and measurable, you are less likely to stay focused on them because there is no set date. In turn, you'll be less likely to accomplish them.

To get rid of this type of money block, it's important for you to set very clear and specific goals around specific timelines. Don't just state, and I will pay off all my debt—instead, state how much in total and by when and how you plan to do it. Then, write it down somewhere you can keep track of it. It could be in a notebook, on a spreadsheet, or in an app.

Also, once you've set those big goals, break them down into smaller chunks you can track weekly, monthly, and yearly so you can stay motivated by the progress you make over time. Breaking big goals down into smaller goals keeps you inspired because they are easier to accomplish!

4. Your emotions and grudges you hold towards other people

Ah, this is a big one. So many people harbor jealousy or even anger toward other people who seem to be doing better than they are. They spend their energy (and time) feeling this way toward friends, family, co-workers, and sometimes even strangers on the internet!

These emotions, in turn, send a ton of money blocks their way because it keeps them focused on negative thoughts and actions.

Are you guilty of this? Well, you can set things right by redirecting your time and energy. Instead of focusing on what other people have that you don't, you can focus on what you can do to start taking the necessary actions to stay motivated and really start finding your own financial success.

It's also important that you remind yourself to be grateful when you start to feel envious of other people because it can help you combat negative feelings.

Gratitude is such an essential part of the journey to financial success. When you're grateful, you realize all the blessings you have in your life, and this leads to contentment. Also, realizing that someone somewhere is praying for something you already have can help put things into perspective.

5. Not forgiving yourself for your money mistakes

This is another big-money block, so many people struggle with. To move forward with achieving your financial success, you have to forgive yourself for your money mistakes, take the lessons you've learned, and keep it moving.

Yes, mistakes happen! Everyone has made bad decisions with money from time to time—even the world's wealthiest people.

It's all about acknowledging where you went wrong and figuring out what to do to make things right. Even if you wind up making the same or similar mistake again, you rinse and repeat (acknowledge, learn and implement the lessons) until you get past your error.

This is how you release those money blocks and start really succeeding with your finances.

6. Avoiding your finances

Do you avoid your finances? This is actually a type of money disorder. Common behaviors of money avoidance are not reading your bank statements, paying bills late, etc. Basically, avoiding anything to do with your money! This money block stems from false beliefs about money and leads to self-sabotage.

Remove this block by taking it head-on. Start by creating a financial routine to get in the habit of checking in with your money regularly. This is a powerful step because it helps you stop avoiding everything that has to do with your finances and stay on top of your money.

To really take control, start using a spending journal to track transactions and your emotions around your money.

7. Worshipping the almighty dollar

You may be thinking, "I thought wanting money was a positive thing." Well, it is, in moderation. Money worship doesn't mean you have an abundance of money. It means that you constantly strive for more and more and end up overspending and racking up debt, trying to find happiness.

So, the trick to beating this money block is finding your passion. What truly makes you happy outside of materialistic things?

Finding the answers to what inspires you and brings joy is important because rather than spending money on crap you don't need, you will find happiness in experiences instead.

You can beat your money blocks and be successful!

In conclusion, now that you know how to remove money blocks, I also want you to understand that you can achieve anything you want. Anything. This means that you have it in you to break the cycle of always being broke. Let that sink in for a moment.

You just have to want it bad enough and be willing to put in the work and stay the course. So take some time out for your finances and identify what's causing any money blocks you might be experiencing right now and take steps to address them. Also, understand that sometimes you might fall short of your goals, and that's okay.

The people who succeed are the ones who power through their shortcomings and failures and keep going anyway. Get started removing your money blocks by learning how to ditch debt, save money, and build wealth with our Free financial courses and worksheets!

 

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Financial abuse

Financial abuse, using money to manipulate and maintain power over another person, is one of the most common forms of domestic abuse. Financial abusers use money as a weapon to assert control over, isolate, and restrict the economic opportunities of another person.

Many of us tend to think of financial abuse as taking place in a romantic relationship, such as between a husband and wife or domestic partners.

However, financial abuse can also occur in other relationships, such as between a parent and a minor child or between a caregiver and an elderly patient.

Here, we'll discuss the common types of financial abuse, how to identify it, and what you can do to overcome financial abuse if you are a victim.

Signs of financial abuse in romantic relationships

Most couples argue about money at one time or another. Having conflicting money views is one thing, and that can be resolved with open and honest communication. But when one partner controls the finances and uses that control to maintain power over the other person or trap them, it can be a sign of financial abuse.

Sometimes financial abuse begins slowly and builds over time. It is also hard to tell from the outside looking in whether someone is in a financially abusive relationship.

There is no “typical” victim of financial abuse. Anyone can fall victim to financial abuse, regardless of gender, race, income, education level, or job status.

This type of abuse goes way beyond just withholding money. Below are some signs of financial abuse to look for, in both your own relationship and in those of your friends and family. Some signs that could indicate this type of abuse include:

1. Denying a partner access to funds, financial information, or basic needs, including:

  • Withholding money
  • Giving an allowance
  • Demanding receipts for purchases
  • Withholding basic needs, such as food, clothing, or medication
  • Excluding them from important financial meetings
  • Denying them access to family financials and excluding them from household financial decisions
  • Preventing them from having or using credit cards or ATM cards

2. Preventing a partner from earning their own money, including:

  • Forbidding them from working or attending school
  • Demanding that they quit their job
  • Forcing them to miss or be late to work often
  • Demanding that they have a “lesser” career so they earn less than the abuser himself
  • Forcing them to work in the abuser’s business for little or no salary
  • Harassing them at their workplace and interfering with their job performance
  • Accessing their benefit payments for themselves

3. Forcing a partner to take certain financial actions, including:

  • Forcing them to file false tax returns or other legal financial documents
  • Coercing or forcing them to take out loans
  • Forcing them to sign over stocks, bonds, or other property
  • Threatening and forcing them to sign a power-of-attorney so that the abuser can sign documents without their consent

Other forms of financial abuse

Financial abuse can also take place in non-romantic relationships. The most common forms are when children are financially abused by their parents and when older adults are financially abused by their grown children, relatives, or caregivers.

Financial abuse of children

Most parents control their minor children’s personal information and finances, which is absolutely normal. However, when parents begin to take advantage of their children and use this information to their detriment, it veers into financial abuse.

Usually, this happens when parents become desperate and have run out of financial options. They end up using their children’s identities to obtain funds.

For example, parents may open a credit card in their child’s name, never intending to pay it off, thus ruining their child’s credit. Or, they may take out a loan in the child’s name and default on the loan.

Sometimes parents apply for cable or a cell phone in their child’s name and never pay the bill. Like the elderly who may not be able to speak up for themselves, children are an especially vulnerable population when it comes to financial abuse.

Any instances of financial abuse of children should be brought to the attention of a trusted family member or, if necessary, an attorney who can advise on what steps can be taken to address the situation.

Financial abuse of the elderly

Financial abuse of the elderly is an even more common form of abuse and it can take many forms. Perpetrators can include family members, friends, neighbors, attorneys, and home care aides.

These people use their power to take advantage of the older person in their care or who has trusted them with their finances. Often, these people have the power of attorney for the senior person that they use to make poor financial choices.

This type of financial abuse includes misuse of credit cards, ATM cards, or checks, stealing money, property, or other valuables, or borrowing money with no intention of ever paying it back.

If you suspect someone is financially abusing a senior in your life, reach out to a family law attorney to determine what can be done to intervene.

What are the consequences of financial abuse?

Financial abuse does not just hurt the victim in the present moment. And it does not just hurt the victim financially. Financial abuse is often an early sign of domestic violence.

Aside from the short-term financial problems and the possibility of it escalating to domestic violence, there are long-lasting consequences of financial abuse.

This makes it all the more imperative that victims of financial abuse identify the problem and seek help as soon as it is safe to do so.

Financial consequences

Victims of financial abuse face long-term financial consequences. They often have low credit scores or no credit history due to a lack of access to financial accounts in their own name.

Others have credit scores that were ruined by abusers who run up bills in their victim’s names and fail to pay them back. Additionally, with little or no work history, victims of financial abuse may find it hard to get a job.

This can limit their income-generating opportunities long after the abuser is gone.

Legal consequences

Common legal consequences of financial abuse include penalties for fraudulent tax returns and punishment for false loan documentation. Victims often find themselves responsible for liabilities that were incurred in their name but without their knowledge.

What can victims of financial abuse do to get help?

If you are in a financially abusive relationship, you do not have to remain in it, no matter how dire your situation seems. The first step is to recognize the problem and decide that you want to leave the relationship.

From there, here are the steps you can take to begin to free yourself from a financial abuser:

1. Gather your financial information

Gather any and all financial information you have at your disposal. This includes copies of credit card statements, bank statements, joint accounts, and tax returns.

Obtain a copy of your credit report from one of the three major credit bureaus. Additionally, it would help if you have on hand copies of your birth certificate, social security card, health records, and any other important documents.

Be sure to keep these personal records in a secure place. When in doubt, leave the copies with someone you trust who lives outside of the household you share with your abuser.

2. Begin to educate yourself about your finances

After being denied access to your day-to-day finances and household financial decisions, you may not have a strong understanding of personal finance. Begin to educate yourself on the basics, such as understanding your credit score and how that impacts your financial life.

You might not understand just yet about how to manage your own finances, but there is information out there. It might seem daunting at first, but you can educate yourself. With free resources like those offered here at Clever Girl Finance, there are ways to learn all about personal finance.

3. Start to save your own money

While this might be easier said than done, saving some of your own money is a crucial step toward leaving an abuser and if relevant to you, preparing for divorce.

While it isn't easy to save cash when you have none, but it can be done. Think outside the box on how you can save. Hide cash tips from your job or reach out to your network and ask a friend for a small cash loan.

If possible, apply for a credit card in your own name so you will have a line of credit available to you if needed.

4. Seek help

Most importantly, seek help. Build a team around yourself that includes a counselor, support group, therapist, or another domestic violence advocate. Reach out to trusted friends and family and talk to them about your situation. In addition, the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence offers resources to victims of financial abuse.

For financial assistance, consider setting up a meeting with a free consumer credit counseling agency. These organizations provide free financial education and can assist you in coming up with a plan to get out of debt, among other things.

Lastly, your safety is the most important of all. If you are in danger, there are legal steps you can take before you leave your abuser to protect yourself. If you feel unsafe, contact an attorney or legal aid agency to discuss your options.

Filing for a protection order or restraining order, which can prohibit your abuser from harassing, threatening, or even contacting you, may be an option.

You can overcome financial abuse

Financial abuse comes in many forms, but it always boils down to one person’s control over another. If you are the victim of financial abuse, know that there is a way out.

By educating yourself and seeking the assistance of others, you can get out of an unhealthy situation and recover from financial abuse.

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I Am Broke! 10 Reasons Why And How To Do Better https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/i-am-broke/ Tue, 13 Oct 2020 11:00:38 +0000 https://www.clevergirlfinance.com/?p=8569 […]

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Why you're broke

I am broke may be a saying that comes too often for you. Becoming wealthy, achieving financial success, living life on your own terms — these are all things that many of us want for ourselves when we think about our futures. The reality is many will never actually realize their dreams of becoming financially successful, but not because they can't.

Anyone with the right mindset and actions can make it happen. However, people behave in ways that don’t promote their financial success, often without even realizing it. They sabotage their financial futures, ensuring that they stay broke… pretty much forever.   

It's important to understand that building wealth isn't about luck. It doesn't just happen to some people and not to others.

Building wealth is about putting in hard work, planning, consistency, discipline, and accountability, and very importantly, maintaining good money management skills — regardless of your current financial situation or how much you currently earn. 

There are thousands of success stories of people who came from the "I am broke" mentality and managed to achieve incredible financial success by changing their mindsets and habits.

But to break the cycle of being broke, you must be aware of the behaviors holding you back from building wealth in the first place.  

Reason 1: You don’t have the right money mindset

You might have heard this before, but having the right mindset regarding your life and finances is essential for success. If you are always telling yourself, I am broke; your perspective will prevent you from succeeding. The way you think about things translates into how you act.

Having the right mindset includes believing that you can be successful, making up your mind to put in the work, and learning how to self-motivate and self-inspire.

Reason 2: You don’t plan your spending

Paying off debt, saving money, investing, living life… In order to successfully do any of these things, you need to have a plan around your money. That means learning how to budget.

A budget not only helps to ensure you’re keeping your expenses below your income, but it also allows you to plan out what you can spend, save, and invest.

If you find that your money easily slips through your fingers (ever wondered where all your money went?), and you end up with not very much left after each paycheck to put towards your savings and investments. The key to this is tracking your spending and making your budget your best friend.

The wealthiest people in the world (who stay wealthy) have budgets. They might not call them budgets, but they most certainly have plans around their spending, saving, and investing. And if they do, then you should, too! The goal is to control your money and give every penny you earn a job to do for you. 

Reason 3: You spend more than you earn

This is one of the biggest reasons why people stay broke and a direct result of not budgeting. Spending more than you earn means you can’t save, and it also means you’re more likely to be overextended and take on debt. You'll feel like you are always running out of money.

The key to this is tracking your spending and making your budget your best friend (see reason #2 above).

If you haven’t had success in the past, perhaps you haven’t found a budgeting method that works well for you? Budgeting is not one-size-fits-all, and you’re more likely to succeed if you use an approach that works best for you.

You need to be honest with yourself-make a list titled “Why I’m broke” and list what you’re spending your hard-earned cash on. This way, you can work on your money mindset, create a budget, and make your future financial plan. (To save, consider free things to do instead of spending money).

Reason 4: You struggle with self-discipline

Self-discipline is one of the biggest areas people struggle with when it comes to financial success. Even I struggle with it at times. People set up their goals with good intentions, but as time progresses, they don't always stay the course.

There's the battle of wants versus needs, wanting instant gratification, and, of course, the emotions that come with it.

Having a bad day and feeling down, or having a great day and feeling excessively happy and deserving, are notorious for many failures and goals falling off track. So how do you combat this?

In my experience, I find that having a strong desire to succeed is the first step — you have to want it bad enough, and you have to be clear on your WHY.

Self-discipline takes practice, and this means you need to make a conscious effort to improve your self-discipline every single day. You also want to be sure you keep your goals visible so you can see them every day and stay motivated.

In addition, accountability is key. If you struggle with self-discipline, then consider finding someone to keep you accountable for the actions you take and around the financial goals you have set.

Reason 5: You borrow for everything

Not planning ahead, spending more than you earn… just put it on the credit card, right? Whatever it is, you tell yourself you can pay it off with your next paycheck. Meanwhile, the bills get higher, and it gets harder to catch up.

If you’ve found yourself in this situation, it’s important that you create a plan to get out of debt. However, in order for your plan to be successful, you’re going to have to commit to stop spending on credit and acquiring new debt. 

You are also going to need to work on your money mindset and develop new habits around your money management. You need to switch off the I am broke mentality, aka Poor Mindset, and develop a rich mindset. It’s not as easy as it sounds, but it’s certainly possible as long as you stay determined and focused.

 Reason 6: You procrastinate saving money

If you want to build wealth, you have to save. Now. Too many people make the mistake of thinking that they just need to earn more money in order for them to save, but that way of thinking is so wrong. When it comes to saving money, it’s all about building the habit and consistency.

Even if your income is not as much as you’d like it to be, focus on saving what you can, and do it on a consistent basis so you can build the habit of saving.

If you can only afford to save a dollar or $10 each time you get paid, then do it anyway. A little + a little + a little over time equals a lot. If you think you can’t save when you have a little, you probably won’t save when you have a lot.

After creating your "why I’m broke" list, take that money you were wasting and start saving it. Start a money-savings challenge that fits your budget and watch your savings account grow. 

Another big mistake is assuming that because you finally do have a great job or income, you have time to save and can always do it later. The truth is life happens. Job security, for the most part, is not guaranteed. Layoffs, company acquisitions, or just a change in the economy can derail this “plan” in an instant.

Start by getting an emergency fund in place and then work on saving money towards your other goals. An emergency fund should ideally have 3 to 6 months of your basic living expenses to cover any unplanned life circumstances.

Reason 7: You don’t invest

You may be thinking I can’t invest. I am broke! The most popular excuses I get around why people don’t invest include: Investing is gambling. Investing is only for rich people. Investing is too complicated.

Well, if you’ve ever made any of those excuses, it’s time to quit them fast. Investing is how you put your money to work for you and how you build real wealth.

Again, this is an area that many fall short in simply because people think they have time or feel retirement is so far away. Well, if you are dreaming of living life fabulously come retirement, it's going to cost you a lot of money, and the type of money that you'll need to sustain you over several years takes time to save and grow, so the earlier you start, the better.

There are different ways in which you can invest your money. Start by contributing to your employer-sponsored retirement plans and take advantage of any match they offer.

You can also consider opening up an IRA to increase the amount of money you can save towards retirement while taking advantage of the tax benefits.

If this is all too much, there are plenty of personal finance resources, including classes, to help you get started.

Reason 8: You compete with everyone

You can also refer to this as keeping up with the Joneses (or the Kardashians). You find yourself buying things you can’t afford to impress people you probably don’t really like and who don’t really care. Keeping up appearances and competing with people when it comes to material things messes with your focus.

If you are guilty of buying things to compete with others, this will need to be added to your why I’m broke list. Stop comparing yourself to others. If you’re trying so hard to keep up appearances, you overspend and could end up going deep into debt to maintain it all.

If you want to build real wealth, there's a common saying that you’re going to need to live like no one else will now, so in the future, you can live like no one else can.

Adjust your focus towards your goals; don’t worry about what other people think of you. And most importantly, focus on being grateful and content on your journey to wealth. Your biggest competition is not other people; it’s yourself.

Reason 9: You don’t make paying off debt a priority

Debt sucks, and if you have it, you don't need me to tell you that. The problem with having debt is that most people don't prioritize paying it off. They don’t make their "this is why I’m broke list" and don’t budget correctly.

They are comfortable with making minimum payments or paying a little extra but don't go as far as figuring out how long it will take them to pay it off, much less create a plan to aggressively do it.

Aggressively attacking your debt means reducing your expenses and/or increasing your income AND putting the extra funds you come up with against your debt. It means selecting a debt pay-off method, following through, and understanding that the aggressive stance is only temporary.

Once you knock out your debt, you'll have more money at your disposal, which you can put towards the things that truly matter to you. The sooner you start paying off debt, the faster you will transform from the I am broke too I’m wealthy mentality.

Reason 10: You’re scared

The fear of failure, ah! This is a big one. Too many people stay stuck in sucky financial situations because they are afraid to fail. They are afraid of the effort, the sacrifice, the commitment, and that they will make mistakes or lose their money. They are afraid that good money management is too time-consuming or too difficult to learn.

Well, if fear is holding you back, it's time to understand you cannot succeed unless you try. That means taking things one step at a time.

Start by taking an assessment of where your finances currently stand and then create a budget and a long term plan—struggling to do it on your own? There's no shame in seeking help. Don't let the fear of failure keep you stuck.

Invest in Yourself to Build Wealth

If you are guilty of any of the behaviors above, it’s time to make some serious changes so you can start working on building real wealth. And that starts by working on YOU.

Invest in your personal growth and development. Read books, take courses, educate yourself, and improve your skillset. When you invest in your self-development and follow through with it, you stay in the frame of mind to succeed and do well.

So stop the cycle of living paycheck to paycheck. Stop telling yourself I am broke and letting it prevent you from being financially successful. Finish this sentence, “I am broke because...,” and figure out the root cause of why you are broke. 

Then take steps to ditch debt, save money, and build real wealth. It’s time to start working on your financial well-being and building wealth instead.

 

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